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writes: I am currently feeling very distressed over a relationship problem. My girlfriend (let's call her P)and I have been having a long distance relationship for the past 3 months (In fact we just got together 3 months ago too).Things were going very well, and we communicated through the webcam every day. Recently, my ex girlfriend unexpectedly emailed P and told her how much she (my ex) still loves me and that our love was so special for the past few years. She even told P that she believes I still have feelings for her (my ex). Reading the mail, P got so mad and was utterly disgusted to the point that her attitude towards me changed drastically. No longer does she say sweet things to me and sometimes she does not even want to speak to me. I can tell that she still loves me and am trying to get over it. In fact just last night, she broke down when we agreed to take a break from each other. Because of that, we decided to forget about taking the break.I feel so helpless towards the whole thing, being so far from her..Am also very upset over the whole thing.. Is there any way I can help P to get over this matter? I seriously hope to get some good advices. Thanks a million..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2005): Well, although unfortunate, this could be to your advantage. You are now perceived as a desireable commodity. That's to the good. Dont let P drive herself nuts over this. Tell her honestly about how much you like the ex and how much you like P. If you wanted O, you would have been with her, but you are in fact choosing P as your girlfriend. You should be able to work this into some of that oral sex that schlottjl hates anyone getting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): I beg to differ...An past relationship is a past as long as there is more love. You probably treasure the new girl while the ex still need time to get over. It is understandable that she behave this way. As long as you two cherish the present and give each other the support, you will be able to build on this new relationship. Let the past be the past and slowly time will heal her. All the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2005): i am just saying, and i know your ex is being a bit to over the top, but have you ever wondered how your ex feels about you. It happened to me a few months ago, and my x-boyfriend is now with a girl very far away. It hurts a lot to see some one you love, love some one else. Maybe you should think hard and long about who you think loves you more. Because for a girl, it hurts like hell for some one to break up with you and then decided to go out with some one very far away. If your at a young age, then don't bother with a long distance relationship, live your life to the fullest and if you are "deeply" in love with some one far away then it is understandable. Jut please think about your ex this time, but at the same time, i really think that you should talk to "P" about this, your ex is just trying to break you to up, and that is out of order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2005): No Worries...All Well Ends Well...I Am Confident U Will Ride It Thru! Stay Cool For Now And That The Best U Can Do!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 November 2005):
 Humm I wonder how your ex found out about "P" and how she got her email address? But back to your problem, I guess all you can tell "P" is that your ex is full of crap and that you have no feelings whatsoever for her and hope that "P" believes you. If she doesn't then you'll just have to move on. Long distant relationships rarely last anyway, I mean what's the point?
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