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writes: Hi everyone,I hope I can get some answers to my problem, I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years, I am 21 and she is 18. We met while on holidays in Italy, for the first year we stayed together but long distance as she is from London, I myself am from Ireland.After the first year she moved over here and we lived together for a year, we decided after one year of living together that we were too young for this and she moved out but only a few minutes from my home. Which is were we are at now...I love her very much but have been finding myself recently feeling anxious about where are relationship is heading. She is finishing a course in college at the end of May 2006 and she is now unsure what she wants to do when the time comes, I cant leave here and move to London with her as my college course is not finished for another 2 years. I have been bringing up this issue with her a few times now and she is beginning to get annoyed with this telling me to just take it one step at a time, im also fearing now that she is seeing this as a sign of weakness on my part.I know she loves me very much but cant seem to come to terms with why she would want to leave now after nearly 4 years and with the love we share.How should I approach this next few months?Thank you.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (9 November 2005):
if you managed long distance once you can do it again. 2 years isn't relly that long. if she does move away then move to be with her as soon as you are ready
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