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writes: I don't know where else to find help regarding my problem.I'm very confused at the moment, I'm English, my mother lives in Greece, where I met the most wonderful Albanian guy ever and we had the most wonderful summer together and fell in love.We had long term plans of marriage and started to continue our relationship long distance with me in England and him in Greece. It went OK for a few weeks but then we ended it because the amount of time we would spend together in a year was very small compared to the amount of time we would spend without each other. Also we would want to live in England together but we would have to get married since he already spent a year and a half in England but was turned down for residency because he situation wasn't bad enough.My question is....how can we be together? Is there any way of him getting back into the country legally and not having to marry coz I think I'm too young? - 20Does marriage automatically mean he can live in the country?I'm going crazy coz I want him back but just don't know how it can work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Hi i am in the exact same situation as you with an Albanian guy! Im albanian also but i live in the US and have been for a while now and my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4 years almost and i am definite he is the one. i really want it to work adn i want us to be together but ihave heard that if you are married you can definately drag him here so just communicate a lot with like the internet and maybe make visits and talk to him don't try to decide for yourself . Good Luck! Anisa
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2005):
Your fellow citizens have have these restrictions for multiple reasons. Please dont take it upon yourself to contravene them to smuggle loverboy into the country.
You can do a semester abroad in Greece.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (14 November 2005):
getting married to him would give him an advantage but would not give him automatic residency. he could search legally for work in england and once he's found something can apply to stay. he can apply as many times as he wants i think. he can also appeal if he is turned down again.
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