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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in Health category)

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He's starting a new job and I've begun to worry about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

29 September 2017 (F) - Hello everyone! My hubby has been unemployed for over a year. Last summer I encouraged him to apply for a good job I knew he wanted... and today we got the news that he got it and he starts on Monday!! Exciting, right? Well... I was excited at first ...

How do I control these erections I get so easily?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

29 September 2017 (M) - Hello everyone! I've got sort of an awkward issue, and I'm going to try to make this brief. I get erections incredibly easily and it's starting to annoy me. Especially around my girlfriend. I'm a very physical person, it's how I show affection, ...

Am I lacking backbone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

29 September 2017 (M) - Hi there, I wonder if you can help me a little further. I am fundamentally unable to deal with mood swings from my wife. They are rare and for the majority of the time we’re absolutely fine. Then suddenly, out of the blue she will descend into wha...

Is she seeking attenton from me or just comfortable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

28 September 2017 (M) - We chat a lot. She seems to remember conversations like from two weeks ago, like we had a conversation about buses and she was per your conversation two weeks ago, she'll remember stuff about me things that I do etc We've known each other for q...

I am exhausted and my boyfriend is no help.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - I know I'm right but someone please knock some sense into me. I'm in a relationship, we don't live together but I spend a lot of time at his house. Work everyday and come home to him sitting on the couch everyday watching tv and has done nothing ...

I am so madly jealous! How can I overcome this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 4 months now, we work together. Me and this girl (both 23 years old) started working at this job at the same time. Obviously every male co worker wanted to hang out with us, since we were new and they all flirted ...

Can smells and tastes affect a perfect blissful courtship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

25 September 2017 (M) - Im blessed with a beautiful and very loving, caring partner who im sure would do anything for me and I would for her as well. So when I have this seemingly silly problem, I do not know how to overcome. Her odors. She uses deo but it wears off either ...

He says he will never marry me because of my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2650 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - Hello, My question is...is there any hope for a future with my ex-boyfriend? We dated for six months and he always suffered from retrograde jealousy for me. During this time I foolishly, casually mentioned my exes, not fully grasping what to...

Need help/ideas/advice I have a controlling guy friend... He is a friend forreal.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - I have a contolling guy friend...i mean controlling in ways that i dont believe are healthy at all... Prob the worst hardest controlling techniques ever... And yes to me very odd and differant because he is my friend... in that sense i feel its ...

We were such good friends, now she wont even talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - Slightly off topic of love and relationships but wondering if someone can shine some light over a situation with a close friend. I'm broken, torn, lost and really struggling to come to terms with the loss of my best friend, for the simple reaso...

What should I do about this date with a man who suffers from PTSD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

20 September 2017 (F) - This is quite a lot to read but theres a lot of detail to it. ive been trying online dating for a while had a few dates but nothing special yet. A guy messaged me and we got chatting i could tell the relief in him that i wasnt stuck up and and ...

Are we sexually incompatible? I need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

19 September 2017 (F) - my fiancé and I have been together for a year and a half and we have been struggling sexually. when we first got together he told me he wanted to wait until marriage to have sex I was perfectly Fine with that as we both were practicing christianity ...

Heart says carry on, head says we are now toxic! Advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

19 September 2017 (F) - Hi. So my 8 year relationship seems to be at its end and I've been given an ultimatum. We split up or we stay together and try to make it work. Some background, we are a young couple, we have been together from a young age and have been through ...

We've had rough times but seem to want only us! But his marijuana use is a problem for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

19 September 2017 (F) - Hi, everyone. Hope everyone is doing well. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. And we seem to love each other so much. And i sat seem becuz we say we love each other to the max but we do many things to hurt each other. And find it ...

I'm 28, watched my father die, and now watching my mother die. How to deal with anger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - I am 28 years old. My parents have been divorced since I was a child. Both of my parents have had poor health for as long as I can remember -- extreme obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart issues, and so on. As I grew up, I watched my fat...

Am I still a virgin? And how can I have pain free intercourse when I'm ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - Hi I wanted to know this question everyone is telling me I am still a virgin but here goes .. The first time I had sex he only put the tip in I bleed a little bit and he says I am still like a virgin because he did ain't push it all the way in the ...

How do I get him to understand my loneliness?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm just looking for a bit of advice. I am married to my partner who I've known since we were kids. I've been feeling so lonely recently as I feel like I've lost connection with my friends. I work and sit at home waiting for my husba...

I want to marry this woman and find it hard to let her go! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

18 September 2017 (?) - Help help help. In a previous column I told everyone about how my x dumped me after 3 1/2 years by text. I also found that she had a dating profile. We talked on the phone. She says she feels like a horrible person for what she did and we had long ...

My girlfriend has poor dental hygiene!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

18 September 2017 (M) - My girlfriend has poor dental hygiene. Her teeth are yellowish and her breath smells bad.I love her but everytime I wish to express it with a kiss I hold back. How do I bring this up with her?...

Something is holding me back from having sex with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - I keep stopping myself from having sex with my boyfriend. I'm still a virgin and my boyfriend knows this. The last two times we have spent the night together, he has tried to initiate sex which I have no problem with. I feel i want to have sex...

I'm not as turned on by my IRL girlfriend as I was with the LDR!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - I've recently started dating a girl from my work who is the sweet, caring, interesting, real girlfriend material. Before her I was casually seeing a girl I met online, it was nothing serious, just dating and a lot of sex really. Now here's my ...

Why can't I remember him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

17 September 2017 (F) - The year after I graduated from high school, I had a sexual encounter with a boy I had graduated with and known well. 40 years later we have reconnected...problem is I do not remember the encounter and he remembers every detail right down to what I ...

How should I handle one of my biggest regrets and the depression it is causing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

16 September 2017 (M) - When I was in high school, I was so afraid of being bullied that I became a bully myself. I was a immature kid and the way I was thinking was completely wrong. About a year after I graduated, one of the kids that I bullied, Zach, died from ...

I want my husband to share me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2574 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - i want my husband to share me. i have had this desire for a long time. it started when my husband told me, during foreplay one night, he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. we talked about it and i said i would like to do it. but afte...

How do I encourage my girlfriend to deal with her depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

14 September 2017 (M) - I think my girlfriend is depressed, I've been dating her for 8 months now and she doesn't have any close female friends and she's incredibly lonely. Most of the time she'll only leave the house to go to classes and she misses quite a few, she has ...

Are we incompatible if he has these concerns early on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend is hurt that I don't spend more time with him and that I'm not giving him enough attention. I have crippling depression and often I am so anxious and so deflated even basic functions are difficult. I still see him at least ...

How do I find some interesting dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

13 September 2017 (F) - I went on a date recently. I had loads of interests in common, he was attractive and he has a stable job. We have a second date. There is only one problem I found him a little boring but I find this is my fault as I normally find people boring ...

Her messaging with a guy makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

12 September 2017 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend of 7 years has been talking to a guy on and off for about 3 years now, I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with it and I get mixed responses. One time she said if you don't like me talking to **** Ill stop, I don't want to hurt you...

I don't want sex to become a duty!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - I have polycystic ovary syndrome. If often means my hormones are all over the place. Sometimes I want sex and sometimes I really don't want sex. But my long term boyfriend naturally has a higher sex drive than me and seems to take it really ...

Any advise on this relationship will be welcome.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2660 days ago

9 September 2017 (M) - I met a woman online about 2 yrs ago where she had posted she was divorced but was actually still married and her husband left her and was seeking a divorce. I told her she needed to finish her divorce before we could date because I don’t date ...

My mother always gives me such a hard time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - Have you ever felt heart ache ? well I have. The feeling of light pain and sour when you're really depressed,and I had one experience for my dying grandma, another one for myself. My mom is a very traditional woman.she always wants me to learn ever...

I feel always destined to be different, to be alone, and on the periphery.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

8 September 2017 (F) - Please can ask your thoughts on something aunts? I'm a lady in my mid 30s, professionally accomplished and financially independent. At work I'm well respected and I get on well with most people. In fact I get on well with lots of people outside...

I'm starting to overanalyze again, I'm afraid of self sabatoge in my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

6 September 2017 (F) - Due to me making the wrong choices w/the types of guys I date, I always have doubt of his interest in the back of my mind. My bf came from vacation and I have asked to see him. Before anyone tears me into pieces about him being tired, overwhelmed ...

How can I let go of the anger I have toward my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2671 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - How can I make peace with my absuive childhood? My parents were absuvice verbally and physically towards each other - and raised me in that environments - I cannot remember a day of peace - they are way too judgemetnatl - my father is a man that is ...