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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Should I try to get to know better the brother of my ex FWB??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4231 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Ok some time ago I wrote in about a really horrible friends with benefits situation I could not seem to get out of. It went on for two years until finally the cloud went from my eyes and I could see the situation for what it really was. We have bot...

Was it a one night stand or does he have other plans?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - So I went home to my sister's wedding and I met this guy, he is Danish, anyway, we end up getting so drunk and we spent all the wedding day together, to make things short I went back to his hotel room and we had sex. I was actually the one that ...

The light switch relationship--now she's pregnant with someone else's baby and I don't want kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - ok so. i got this on again off again relationship for about the last couple years. shes 20 im 23. seems every time we have a drink together we end up in the sack together. shes always telling me im the sweetest guy she knows. and stuff like that. i ...

Can a no strings attached relationship ever turn into a real relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - hi there im back out on the dating scene again yeeaah well anyways i kinda want nsa's fun and no relationship however that seem to be somewhat hard as now the three guys im sleeping with want to have a realtionship yes all three bu...

He asked me for a FWB relationship and I don't know how to proceed from here

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have a guy friend, let's call him A, whom I've known for around an year. He's nice, funny, very intelligent, respectful - basically, he's a nice catch. A month ago I started hanging out with him and a bunch of friends, all male - I'm the only f...

He's going through a divorce. Am I just his little secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - I've recently become involved with someone who lives in my block of apartments. I've known him for 4 years but he was married. They separated 3 months ago and are going through a divorce. We have become very friendly, always texting, popping over to ...

How do I warn my friend about my former FWB without reliving my story?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid I was in FWB for around 3 years on and off. He was my collegue at work and I was in love with him. Long story short he was very abusive towards the end and dumped me a month ago. We see each other at work, he carries on as if I don't ex...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

Could my decision hurt me in any way and what do you think of FWB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi. Im 18 young and single. I am getting ready to graduate from high school and will be heading off to college shortly. I have done extremely well and am graduating with a 3.9 gpa. I figure with the year coming to a close why not have some fun. So ...

What do you think his deal is? Does he just want to be friends with benefits? Or is he just shy and reserved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - This guy I've been hooking up with, seeing, hanging out with...not sure what to call it, is confusing me so much. I'm so unsure of how he feels towards me. Right now, I would describe our relationship as FWB. We met at work. At work, he remains...

Is it normal to obsess about the person I gave up my virginity with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - up until last week i was a virgin. Im 18 and wanted it to be with someone special and it wasn't, i lost my virginty on a 1 night stand. I regret it so much but i know theirs nothing i can do. But now i am obsessed with the guy i lost it to, i ca...

So why am I feeling conflicted about progressing this to sex with her? Seemed the logical next option.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - I've recently began a self-improvement kick, beginning to exercise, be more social, exude confidence. I'm getting female attention for the first time in ages. I really hit it off with a girl at a party last week, we spoke a lot and ended up holding ...

How do I keep him still wanting to meet up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I recently separated coming out of a 17 years of emotional and sometimes physical abuse; i now see myself as a strong independent woman with a respectable career and i believe no one looking at me could really guess what I'm coming out of. Now I ...

Should I talk to him again and explain that I want more than FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - It's been about 2years that I met this guy and we were instantly attracted, talked for a few weeks and then had our first "hook-up". I've talked to him two different times that I deserve more, I want more and I don't want to be his "F-buddy"!!! ...

He said he wanted to be fwb but then gave me the cold shoulder

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4245 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - I am a 34 yr divorced woman. I have been working with wonderful people and love my job. At work I met a good looking man with a troubled past and is now trying to get his life together. He is very quite and sometimes kinda speaks his mind. He is ...

Is he avoiding me because of the blood or because he never really cared?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Hello, this is a little long but please do read. This is a bit of a messy situation, literally. Yesterday i interviewed a man who i have a serious crush on, a very sexy handsome man with massive muscles, i sat next to him to take a picture and aske...

I think my Sis FWB guy likes me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - Help aunts! Ok so my sis is in a FWB with this guy. Hes telling her he loves her and that they should become a couple. She sayin she likes him and that she cares. Now the problem is, about 1 month and a half ago my sis FWB guy text me. Hes say...

My FWB is sick of me and called me a whore! Did I do anything wrong to deserve to be treated this way?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I am in on and off FWB with my best friend. I fell in love with him but he says he likes me but no love word. Long story short, he bacame very abusive (physically and emotionally) lately. I couldnt even hold a decent conversation ...

He obviously likes me, so why doesn't he just tell me he wants me to be his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - How does one get a guy who shows many signs of liking them more than just a friend or hookup to ask them out officially? We have known each other a few years. Initially we started as just a college hookup thing when drunk but I got tired of that ...

Is he just leading me on to use me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

10 May 2013 (F) - am a 20 yr old girl,i met this guy over a dating site he is 30years old,ok we did the obvious that is exchanged phone no.s and started chatting thro the phone he was like, he liked me and i liked him to that was after a month of talking through ...

Will he ever want a relationship with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy. We have sex and we go out to dinner and to the cinema. Sometimes we just chill and there's nothing sexual to it. He stays at least twice a week and is always cuddling me and kissing me. However he says he's not ready for a ...

How can I get over him? I need to get over him. He's a player and I'm starting to feel he treats me like a booty call.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4255 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - This question and the content inside is bizarre and I know that, thats why I need help. I like my cousin a lot and I really want to learn how to stop I want to learn how to stop thinking of him sexually and being in a relationship all that stuff. ...

I'm a straight girl and I'm in love with my best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I am a straight teenage girl and I am in love with my best friend. Well let me start off by saying that my best friend is also a girl. In fact she is "bi" but mostly dates girls. Last summer (and during that school year) we started seeing e...

Do women really get 'used for sex'?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - This is not a personal question but a general question about the concept of 'using' someone for sex which is usually used about women. Why do people assume that a woman is 'being used for sex' when she's in a friends with benefits situation or at ...

I still haven't talked to him about us being in a relationship, it's just like we chill and have sex. So my question for you guys, should I talk to him about how I feel?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

1 May 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a few months now. And the first time we officially chilled was on Christmas day. When we chilled, we did have sex. But before we chilled, it wasn't established what either of us were looking foe (like a ...