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writes:am a 20 yr old girl,i met this guy over a dating site he is 30years old,ok we did the obvious that is exchanged phone no.s and started chatting thro the phone he was like, he liked me and i liked him to that was after a month of talking through the phone we agreed to meet and we had sex... We continued having sex for about six months now and he kept asking wat he meant to me everytime we were and i told him we were fuckbuddies as we had agreed earlier...actually i was falling for him and i thought he was to but now he is like he doesnt want to meet me because we had agreed to meet but he keeps postponing it...do u think he is just leading me on to use me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys thanks for ur answers especially the last 1 it is really helpful,,,i appreciate them
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reader, human_male  +, writes (11 May 2013):
 I fail to see how is is using you if he doesn't want to meet. He may be leading you on because he is too gutless to end it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2013): Take this experience as a life lesson. I have a couple of girlfriends who went out with older men as yourself and they all are feeling the same way you are now. He kept asking you what you felt toward him each time. Would this not send alarm bells into your head? It should of. As far as F-buddies you shouldn't of given him six months worth of free samples. Now your just another woman he had sex with and didn't have to pay a thing to get. And probably he has pictures of you in comprising positions to show his buddies. I guess I have to ask you how does it feel to be a F-buddy? Really good? Did you get your lust on enough? Are you happy with yourself? Have you caught any sexual diseases from Casanova? The next time you want to get it on you either turn your feelings totally off or you really decide if the F-buddy story is your new way of life? Remember yes you were used because that's what you told him each time you had sex with him you only wanted. But going by your own words what you really felt isn't what you really deeply wanted. Good-luck...
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (10 May 2013):
You're using each other. That seems pretty obvious. A friend with benefit relationship doesn't always last for very long because there is no commitment.
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