A
female
age
41-50,
*ayona1
writes:This man that I see everyday flirts with me and touches me in friendly gestures. He said we needed to talk soon about me liking him. He watches me and sometimes walks back and forth to his office when he knows I’m in the hallway and he makes sure he says something to me whereever I’m at, even if he already spoke to me earlier. So I texted him on his email, but he never responded back until I texted him and told him that I thought he was sexy, and gorgeous. Then he responded with he appreciated it, thanks, that was it. I texted him again and still no response. I want to know, do you think he's just a flirt, or is it more? Now he still speaks sand calls me baby everyday. He even engages in a conversation with me daily. He questions me about who I came to work with or rode to work with, if he sees me get out of the car with someone, or if he sees me at a store and he thinks I’m with a guy, he'll ask me who was I with at the store, but in nice way with his question. He watches me while I’m talking or sitting at my desk and people will tell me they saw him looking at me when I’m not paying attention. Can anyone tell what is going on with this man?
View related questions:
flirt, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 i think it is fine to enjoy a flirtation with this man, but dont look for anything further. from what you have described he loves the game and the compliments, but has no real interest in you. has he ever asked about what makes you tick??? about what you like to do? or is it just constant complimenting and flirting? im pretty sure that if he hasnt made an effort to see you outside of work for a date, then there is no chance of anything more than what you have now.
A
female
reader, iayona1 +, writes (3 February 2011):
iayona1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question he asked me if there was something i wanted to give him and i said no then he asked again and said are u sure and i said nall what am i suppose to have sumin for u and he said yeah and i said oh ok yeah i got sumin for u which i thought he was talking bout sumin else, then i thought he was talking bout my number. i texted him again with my number and still no response
...............................
A
male
reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 He may be interested in you but he may have a wife or girlfriend that is with him at home which makes it hard for him to contact you back on email. Dont even waste your time. Look at and read the signs that are there. If he has not asked you out by now, he is not serious
...............................
A
female
reader, Blonde68  +, writes (3 February 2011):
Alarm bells are ringing for me. He loves the attention he gets from women, he loves the responses he gets following a little flirting.
Men like him just purely get a kick out of it and it is good for the old ego!
He didn't exactly show many signs that he was geninuely interested following your emails/texts did he!?
Let him continue with his silly flirting, but not at your expense!
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Very weird. Sounds like a flirt to me. Maybe you should try giving him the cold shoulder and see how he reacts then.
not replying to your texts was very rude.
he may also be shy, but that's not what it sounds like from your message.
it seems slightly creepy him coming onto you like this but not responding when you show any interest. are you sure he's not in anothe relationship?
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Is he married or in a relationship? If not it seems he's a flirt. When you texted him you got minimal response then the next time none. He is either the office flirt who runs a mile when it looks as if something may happen or he is still interested but hasn't made a move. I suspect he's just an 'all say and no do' flirt. Ignore his advances in future.
...............................
|
