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writes:So i've meet the one. Really the one i dreamed all my life. The girl of my dreams. But was a complicated relationchip and she started taking antidepressives with only 20 years age. At a year and a half she brokes up with me, and after a month of no talk at all (and i was really really down) i move on with my life, and make up with a girl. After she knows about that, the wants to get back, and so i did, because i loved her so much. Then we've been like 6 months ok and one day the makes up with one on her ex's. i never felt so bad and never been so hartbroken. and i am so afraid of getting hurt again that i havent say nothing to her on the last month and i know it may sound silly but believe me, this is the one, and i wont be so in loved again. This was the girl of my life. recently she textd me asking sorry by the way thing had ended, and that she had tendency to only remember the good parts, and she was my friend. a week later she sended another txt msg asking why i didn's speak to her. and i can't answer her beacause i'm simply afraid of getting hurt again. my friends say that the fact that i'm sayng nothing it's only turning her on. but i'm afraid i don't say nothing for too long and she meets another guy and move on. i don't want that but i can't take another heartbrake right now, and i have zero faith in her. i want to talk to her, but i dont want to fall in love with her again. and i havent still say nothing to her in the last month, beacause in the moment that i will say something to her again, it will be like a drug, like i'm gonna be "hooked" again, and i only sayng this because i know myself and i know there are things i cant control. really really really apreciate some help! tanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): hey! thanks a lot i wasant expecting a response so soon! to simplify things i'm just gonna post here what the sended me last month and if you dont mind just tell-me what do u think about this text. oh and she is 20 years old so she gan't still let go of the games. When we were together she only needed me when i was't there for her, and if i tell her i loved her she would call-me clingy. she was very very unstable and bipolar.. but i and a little crazy too, and maybe this was what atractedme most, that we where both completly insane when we where together. my life is super, the school is going great, the work is getting better and better, i've hit the gym, and i'm evotuling personally as much as possible. i also have some really cute girls intrested, but i just can't let go. it's like head vs heart. and i had some really good girlfiends and i kind o know that a can't be with anyone that makes me so vulnerable. It's just that a have been never been so inlove with a girl even after she cheated on me. she is way more atractive that me so she takes control real fast. and i just don't want to get so much hurt again, but don't want to let go, cause my heart is just don't letting me to moove on. So here's what she saiyd: "Hi.
I wait that it is all good with you.
I find that I must you an order of excuses, for having treated to the way as I treated you.
I find that I was arrogant and incoherent but was the only way that had to move away to you from me of a time for all, therefore wise person that you went to finish for leaving me in peace.
I do not have does not stop saying you not to be that I have penalty that the things between us have finished thus, but was for optimum of the two, therefore nowadays already I am much more healthful that was to months behind. I wait that tbm you are.
Desire you the biggest happinesses of the world, therefore although all the bad things that u did to me you also you provide many good moments to me and unhappyly is always of that we have trend of in remembering them.
Little kiss of your friend.". What do u think? thanks a lot!
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reader, Denizli  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 The girl of your life? Um. The girl of your life shouldn't treat you like she does, it's obvious she doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. It's hard when we fall deeply for someone then it's too late when we realize they don't feel as much for us. But you gotta open your eyes and see this girl isn't worth your time and as long as she knows you're always gonna be there for her she won't have any respect towards you and will keep seeing you as her second option. You should move on with your life, trust me there's many other women out there who are worth to take a chance with :) it's not the end of the world, and it's possible to fall in love more than once so why waste your time with someone who won't take you seriously. Talk to her and tell her you're tired of games. Tell her to either make up her mind about her feelings for you or hit the road. As simple as that. Good luck!
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reader, Leodjoneluv  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 Man don't waste your time. Don't take on extra baggage. She is going to make you miss out on something really special. Don't give any woman or person too much power in your life. Learn to walk away.
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