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writes:I met this guy ONE WEEK ago, but he has a gf. He's like no one I've met. We can just sit and talk for literally hours, the past week we've texted when we woke up and before we've gone to bed. We hung out almost every day last week, and the 2 days we didn't he was hanging out with his gf, he tells me he loves her.The texts before bed say how he had such a good time today, how excited he is to hang out the next day, "only 3 more hours" in reference to when we're suppose to hang out, etc. we just lay in my car and listen to music. the last time we did- we played with each others hands, in a flirty way. he teases me a lot, in a playful way.He hasn't made a move or talked about "us" or whatever it is we have, he's not the player type and this past week we have gotten to know everything about each other (our mistakes, hopes, fears etc.) so i know what we have isn't meaningless and he isn't using me.It has only been a week, but it's driving me crazy as to whether we're just friends or he likes me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): stay away from him. okay. how would you like if your boyfriend did that with someother girl. back off.
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reader, xlittleredcutiex  +, writes (14 July 2009):
Be very careful what you do. I was in this situation a couple of months ago and the man I was interested in spilt up with his girlfriend and started seeing me, he's totally different with me now. Not saying this would happen to you but never know what could happen. I regret even going near him now. It's not exactly the right way to start something with him is it? Even if he does like you what is to say he won't do it to you, if he was your boyfriend would you put up with it?Stays friends and keep your distance x
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (14 July 2009):
 well seeing as he's told you he loves his girlfriend i think he just finds you more as a close friend someone he can talk to about this that maybe he can't tell his girlfriend.
he may enjoy your female company but as friends.
he probably feels closer to you and feels you are someone he can come too when things get bad someone he trusts.
i am not saying he doesn't trust his girlfriend but it's nice to have friends as girls also he probably finds it easier to talk to you than he does with his guy friends.
i've got a guy friend hes my best friend! and people take us the wrong way because we have a flirty manner he has a girlfriend but she knows its the way we are and its just how our friendship is.
Hope this helps.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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