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He texts me and invites me out, is he interested?

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Question - (14 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I am just trying to figure out if this guy that I kind of like, is interested in me.

I haven't known him for too long really. But some days he will text me and say "Hey What's up?" And he'll always ask me how my day has been.

He's invited me to some parties, but I can never go because my parents won't let me.

And just recently, we were talking and I told him that I needed to find something fun to do with my summer and all he replied was "so do I" and so I responded with "If you ever get bored and want someone to hang out with, I'm never busy" and all he said was Ok Cool.

I can't tell if he's kind of shy or just not interested. But if he wasn't semi interested, would he invite me to these parties or text me just to say what's up?

Any advice helps!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009):

he seems to like you but you wont know for sure untill u actually go out but if he texts you and has asked you out its a good sign

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (14 July 2009):

I'm sure he was interested until you basically said, "I have no life and can see you whenever you please...because I have no life." It may have caused him to lose some interest. People like to go out on dates and parties...have some fun and excitement. You're an adult, but your parents don't allow you to go out? Unfortunately, things like that can be a struggle for some people. It's not your fault, but someone may be turned off by something like that. Your parents still tell you what you can and cannot do and it's affecting your social life. I think you should talk with your parents or move out.

As far as the guy goes. He seems like he's being nice...and he's interested somewhat. But some of those factors may have caused him to start losing some interest.

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