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writes: I'm getting mixed signals from a coworker. He's my age and all summer we were just friendly. Two weekends ago he got really flirty with me and it was so comfertble I went along with it. He touched me softly and made a few jokes. He mentioned hanging out but didn't make any real plans.I fell for him and thought about it until this weekend when I saw him again. We happened to be working in the same spot together again. He began in a good mood but when a guy friend came to the park to surprise me, and the security guard came to flirt he got upset and said there was a line of guys for me. Then he started to make fun of me and although I tried to be sweet to him he was really getting to me.I left very upset.I went in the next day with a positive attitude, he was nice and even noticed when I changed my outfit, because I got cold. He offered me his chair when I went to visit him. Then my bestfriend went to give him his break and he was in an aweful mood and yelled at her. I don't know what to do. All summer he was so nice, I really felt so comfterble with him but I don't like what came over him. Any tips on where to go from here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): What came over him, you ask? He sounds like a complicated, moody fellow who is lacking some 'maturity/respect' characteristics in how he deals with other people. And how fortunate, you are spotting this now, before even dating him. To yell at your best friend was ucalled for...we don't treat people like this...plain and simple. Sounds like he conducts his life in a negative, self-entitled manner. Forget about him and keep being observant like this, in any future relationship you consider. Always watch the actions of others, it tells you a lot about them. Good luck.
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