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writes:Long post but I really need help.You have to read this question:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html..before reading the current one you are reading.So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got all my answers..I regret everything and I just wish I could change things.He said 'I didn't know I had such a BIG impact on you, because you didn't know how to show it'I said 'I know, but seeing as it was my first time I didn't want to do anything stupid and I tried showing it but I didnt know how to'He said 'Because you didn't know how to show it, that was a disadvantage.. Because I didnt think you liked me so much and so I couldnt tell if I would be happy with you and so I had to stop myself from falling for you'I said 'I was shy and extremely nervous because of it being my first time'It then was just being repeated again and again, and we both realised it ended because of bad communication.However, his feelings have gone completely he told me he doesn't like what he used to like about me (but I'm still the SAME!).. and mine are still here.. They haven't decreased at all!I actually don't know what to do! Some people are saying he might like you a little. But I know he doesnt..But he would've told me.. He's an upfront guy.Do I say hello? Or Start a conversation?Please helpx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Hey girl,
If you know he is an upfront guy and things ended because of bad communication, I think then you should just remain friends with him for a while. Go ahead and try to talk to him as friends. Tell him you know that he doesn't have the same feelings but that you rather him be friends with you then not have him in your life at all. Then let it go from there.
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