A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi aunts just a quick question. I met a guy off a dating site around 12 weeks ago. He is amazing. Cute, funny, kind etc. If we dont catch up he calls me every day, we go out to dinner all the time and have met each others friends. I'm just about to meet the family too. The thing is we have never talked about our 'relationship' or if we are in fact in one. One of his friends asked me a couple of days ago if we are in fact together - in the sense of boyfriend and girlfriend. I had no idea what to say, we are just sort of cruising along. My question is, is it necessary to have the talk about weather or not we are in fact in a relationship, or should I just leave it alone. I dont want to spoil a good thing or look needy. Ps, i took my profile off the site but his is still up though, he has not checked it since the day we met 3 months ago (it tells you the users last login date) so im pretty sure he is into me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): Hi thereIt sounds to me like you just want to have the fact acknowledged that you two are an item and that he will be faithul and not pursue other women.By the sounds of your post you are indeed in a relationship. He may be having the same thoughts that you are in regards to whether or not you are in fact 'together'. If I were you I'd perhaps broach the subject of exclusivity and make it clear at this stage that you have no intention of getting with anyone else and ask if he feels the same. if he says no let's keep seeing other people you have your answer really.He sounds nice though so I doubt this will happen.
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Yes you are in a relationship :)
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