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writes:I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before. I believe he is my soulmate but doesn't want to get involved with me as I am so young but he claims he still likes me Please help :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Hey hun, it sucks to be fifteen eh?
First of all it's great that you've found someone that you have an intellectual connection with. It feels great when someone finally gets you. But what you've also got to do is take yourself out of the smaller picture and insert yourself into the bigger one. You're only fifteen and life and love has only just begun for you. He won't be the last boy you fall for. Trust me. Also remember that we don't have just one soulmate in life. Soulmates come in many different shapes and guises and they come to you at different stages in life to teach you certain things. At fifteen you've only just begun your romantic career.
Meet him and see if you've got chemistry and a genuine interest in each other beyond the bounds of a computer screen or phone. If he doesn't want to meet than consider letting it go, it means he feels differently or sees your connection differently.
Don't stress out about it, if it's meant to be, it'll be. If it's not meant to be and if he's not the one for you than just imagine what the wonderful person who is meant for you will be like :)
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (15 October 2008):
 If he's your true soulmate then it won't hurt to let things just happend naturally. Continue being his friend from afar. I am assuming possibly that this is an internet connection. Since he is 18 certain laws could cause him alot of problems (especialy here in the states)if he becomes involved with you. Since you didn't specify if he was in the UK or not I am not sure about laws there. It could be a concern that you two haven't actually met and he might not be able to see this as a Happening Thing.
By allowing things to happen naturally you will have a chance to know one another better thru emails and such. It gives you both time to get the feel of good friendship, long before you make any kind of serious committment toward one another. Don't worry you have so much time to find that special someone.If it turns out that he is the one then when the proper time presents itself take it day by day.
He could have many reasons for his reluctance to get involved. Please remember to respect his feelings on this. Not doing so can push him away, possibly for good.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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