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writes:Should I stay or move?I moved to Bolton to look after a family member, my aunt took very ill and i couldnt look after her anymore so she is in a care home. I found myself a job and a partner of 3 years, we bought a house last year and got engaged but have now seperated. We worked at the same place but i found out he was also seeing someone else from work, therefore i couldn't cope with seeing them(he ended it)I have now bought him out of the house but i am confused as to whether i should stay in Bolton and try and get on with things on my own (no job now tho or friends) or move back to Somerset where my friends are and i have been offered a job and rent my house out. Although somerset is nice there is not much nightlife or shops which i like.I don't know what to do for the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): If you honestly feel like you dont want to go back to Somerset, dont. I think you would be going backwards. Dont give up. Be strong and dont let him break you. I know you are hurt, but your also strong. Women are made to survive through whatever life hands us or shoves in our path. Listen to your heart, it will never fail you.
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reader, leighsmith  +, writes (15 October 2008):
Sometimes going back home can be fun for a while, but when we go to new places and meet new people we change. And things just arn't the same at home anymore. especially if it has been 3 years for you.
Perhaps visit for a while, or move some where completely different. It is sort of a now or never deal. And it will help you discover more about who you are and what you really want in life - change is good.
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