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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

His daughter and I are close in age she hates me, but I love her father so much help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - I'm 24, my boyfriend is 42 and we met 9 months ago on a cliff while he was on holidays in my country. At the time he was talking to his buddies about how amazing the scenery was and we locked eyes for the first time and smiled at each other. ...

I’m sexually frustrated in my married! Advice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

31 May 2018 (M) - hey id like to clear my thoughts and get an opinion. here goes, right ive been in a relationship for 14 years and we have 4 kids together. i no im probably going to get told i shouldnt read whats on the internet but its there and what i read is ...

Been dating for 4 years but an old flame has returned, and so have the feelings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I've got a serious relationship problem I really need some help with! I have been with my boyfriend for four years. He's caring, kind, affectionate and I really do love him. However, our relationship lacks passion and we have little s...

Is this over-committing to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2366 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - So some time ago I asked whether I should stand up to my parents. I basically spoke to them and came off as diplomatic as possible on the issue of dating and seeing people. the link to my previous question: ...

My sister’s husband is my ex from high school and he is rude to my boyfriend! And my boyfriend is frustrated by this and that he has to deal with an ex of mine!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - Hello my sister is now married to my ex boyfriend. We broke up in our early 20s. I'm not trying to make myself out to be God's gift to men but he was fixated on me since high school. Flash forward to 2008 and they get married. My sister has isolated ...

A baby usually brings a family closer but I’m just thinking that now that I’m really “growing up” my mom and I are becoming as estranged as we’ve been before. Can anyone please give me perspective?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - Hey all! I’m twenty six and recently married, having my first baby. I’m excited, scared and also, so grateful that he’s coming. Our families are excited but at the same time, there’s discord. My Catholic mother wants the baby baptized, we do ...

Sister didn't invite me to her birthday but instead asked me to watch her kids. Advise please.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2370 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - Sister didn't invite me to her birthday but instead asked me to watch her kids. Advise please. So recently, i got a text from my sister asking me if i could mind her kids on a Saturday night for her birthday (which at the time was about 6 weeks aw...

Has anyone completely moved and drastically cut everyone off because I want to do just that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - Has anyone felt this way in their thirties? I love in a major city in the east coast (US) and I want to so desperately leave my job my family my everything behind - I almost want to disappear and go missing - a lot of things in my life have turned ...

I just learnt that my girlfriend was sexually abused by her stepfather and his friend but I can't seem to move past this information

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2372 days ago

22 May 2018 (M) - I’ve been dating this amazing girl for two years. We took our relationship very slow because we both had been in long term relationships that ended badly. Our relationship is close to perfect we’ve actually talked marriage recently. We were talking ...

Recently there is a lack of trust from both sides!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - I'm in a relationship and have been with the boy for 6 months. We had a very good start to our relationship other than a few anger issues he had where he would get too angry too easily. Beside this it was pretty much perfect. Recently he found out ...

My youngest children have fallen out with my oldest child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2368 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - I have 3 children who are now young adults and 2 of them have fallen out with their eldest sibling. I have tried for almost a year now to get them to talk and they’re all willing to talk to each other as long as the other party says sorry first. ...

Please help to explain to my sister that I am not a monster for looking at porn!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

18 May 2018 (M) - I need the help of the people of DearCupid here. I have been trying to explain to my sister that all guys look at porn one way or another but she wouldn't listen and thinks I am a monster for looking at images of naked women. I have been a role ...

If I’ve fallen for him and my parents don’t approve of me being with someone, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - I met my friend when we were both just 10 years old. We kept in contact for years but were never close.. we just always make sure to wish each other on birthdays and chat to catch up and see how we’re both doing. But just last year in September, we ...

Should I keep in touch and message him from time to time? Or leave it to him? And how long are we on hold for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - i met someone in february at a friends party and we hit it off immediately, only he suffers from mental health issues because of a past abusive relationship anyway recently my mum had a go at him through Facebook for going to see his friend instead ...

Did my boyfriend snub my son by not saying goodbye to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Something is bugging me. I drove my boyfriend to work today. His car is in the shop and he doesn't live with me. My 13 year-old son was in the car too. After I dropped off my boyfriend, I was going to drop my son off at school. Well, my boyfr...

Should I send snapshots to his siblings and his mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Recently after another classic domestic between hubby (59) and me, I was at the end of my tether... I asked hubby how he would like me to talk about his mother in the same manner of profanity he speaks to me day in day out? Later I did apologize, ...

I wish he would look at me and see I'm drowning, instead of calling me lazy, or belittling my parenting, cooking, whatever.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - I have a laundry list of concerns that I have really no one to turn to with. So I moved across the country to be with my bf and so our family could be together. 2 and a half yrs and 2 babies later, I'm unhappy. It hurts to admit. I have a roof ove...

I am upset at how he dealt with Mother’s Day! What would you do in my shoes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Hello. My bf and I are 35, cohabitating. We have kids but not with each other although I am quite close with his. I was really upset on mother’s day because I woke up to an empty, messy house but a gift and cards left out. Apparently he thought the ...

My 16 year old daughter wants to spend time with these older men! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - My 16 year old daughter has recently made some new friends. At first I let them come round to our house only. My issue is they are in their late 20's. They talk about music as my daughter plays guitar. But now she has been wanting to go see their ...

How can I deal with my upbringing ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - Hello aunts How can I forget my childhood? I come from a communist country (Europe) was basically raised here my whole life so I am Americanized but my parents had an arranged marriage - I still live with my folks as I am saving to buy a ho...

I was abandoned by my mom, my dad's girlfriend has managed to put a wedge between my father and I and I'm hurting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2383 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hi I'm really upset, I hope you can help. My dad when I was younger was horrible to me and my mum, I won't got too into things but when he was drunk he took is anger out on me, I was 6 year old and constantly covered in bruises ( my body not my ...

Should I tell my parents I am sexually active?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Okay, I’m 17 and I just lost my virginity about a week ago. My parents don’t know and I’ve had a few of my closest friends tell me that I need to tell my parents. The thing is, I’m terrified that they won’t let me talk to my boyfriend or be with him ...

At what age would young couples move in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hello. I am 21 years old and already wanting to settle with my boyfriend. We have made plans in the future to settle and live together as in get an apartment and eventually a house. I am in university full time and seeking part time jobs. We both ...

Why did he invite me, then say nothing about me going with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

11 May 2018 (F) - I’ve been seeing a guy for almost 4 mths. I’ve met his friends but not yet his family. From what he has said they know about me and he’s tried to introduce us before, however that was about 2 mths ago, which I felt to soon. He has met some of my f...

Will the intimacy return? Do other new parents feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

10 May 2018 (M) - Okay, to put a little background into this for better understanding, my wife and I have 2 kids. One was born at the end of January this year, but with the way I am, I don't handle the infant stage very well. I have quite the temper and crying ...

Is 19 years old an age where it is appropriate to stand up to parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - My question is fairly simple.. Is 19 years old an age where it is appropriate to stand up to parents? Here's my situation... I'm the type of daughter that literally does everything my parents say, for as long as I remember. Of course, being ...

I tried so hard to give my parents a better life but it's all wasted on them and somehow I'm the black sheep

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2385 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - Hello Friends, I am Indian, aged nearly 40 years. I live with my parents as I have never been married. My parents are not financially sound but have regard in family/friends circle. My younger brother is working in India but not in same state. I...

My boyfriend and his cousin sister's behaviour made me sick to my stomach. Am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - Please tell me if I'm being overly conservative. My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years, and this is the first time his aunt and two cousins, one 12yrs old, the other 14yrs old came to visit. Since this is my first time meeting the...

How do I distance myself from my toxic siblings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2387 days ago

8 May 2018 (F) - Okay so, it all began about a year ago. I've been having issues with both my elder and younger sisters. Before my younger sister came along, my elder and I were super close. Atleast we were, about a year ago. Now my you get sister is 12, an...

He’s taken to sleeping on the sofa! How do I approach this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

7 May 2018 (F) - Hi I’ve been with my partner for 5 years our relationship has always been good we rarely argue but just lately he has taken to sleeping on the sofa it started out cos our daughter was poorly with a virus so I put her in bed with me so I could look ...

My boyfriend says it’s time for me to give him my virginity!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

6 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend tell me it's time to give your virginity I cannot wait it's has been 10 months we are together I know he is my boyfriend and has the right but am scared of my parent if one day know about it ?? my boyfriend don't have a good job my ...

Is having a child something that you can end up thinking wow this is the best thing I have ever done or do you stick with your gut feeling?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2388 days ago

5 May 2018 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years and are just in the process of buying a house. She is wanting to have children in the next 2 years. The problem is I have never really been interested in having a child. I have a good job which I ...

Our teenager's actions are causing problems in our marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

4 May 2018 (M) - I guess what we are experiencing with our 15 year old son is not much different than what every parent of teenagers has been since eternity, but it is still stomping us, and leaving utterly frustrated. Our son has stopped being interested in ...

How do I deal with pregnancy envy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2392 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - How do people deal with pregnancy envy?Im a single women and my last serious relationship ended last year. During my relationship with my ex we talked about children and he always said he felt we weren’t ready but he did want to try within t...

Am I being irrational for wanting him to show me a picture of his bedroom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2391 days ago

3 May 2018 (F) - So I have been going out with boyfriend for 9 months, and have been introduced to his parents. His parents are really weird about having people over. They don't like to. So I'v never been inside my boyfriend home. Yesterday we were going to the ...

Stay with my Sugar Daddy to help my financial issues, pursue a real relationship, or both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2393 days ago

3 May 2018 (F) - I have a really sensitive issue that leaves me in a dilemma and a lot of guilt... There's this guy I've been dating for awhile, let's call him M. He really likes me for who I am, he's very serious about me and very appreciative of me. He's been...

I’m 19, nearly 20, and my parents object to me dating anyone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

2 May 2018 (F) - Awhile ago, I posted a question and well another issue has arisen. I'm a 19 year old trying to get my parents to start letting go now as in loosening their grip on me a little. I know for a fact that I really started growing up since I was 15 y...

Is it okay to delete from your life a parent (father, in my case) that has never cared for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

2 May 2018 (M) - Long story short - my parents separated (my mother and I got kicked out of the house) and later on divorced when I was 1. My father never paid a dime of child support. Times were different and it was very hard for my mother to legally force him to ...

Should I report a teacher for teaching 7 year olds about sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2394 days ago

1 May 2018 (F) - 3 days ago my 7 year old daughter came to my house asking me about why guys can only wear condoms, she was too curious to know more about sex and the male genital. I was shocked how she knew the word condom, from who and why she is asking me this ...