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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I really love this guy so much. How to make him realize all will be fine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - I am 22 {Indian}and financially stable. I met this guy through Facebook . We were young and it was first love for both of us. It was intense and serious relationship . We had own ups and down in these 6 years .His parents were helpful during this ...

Why can’t they leave me alone and enjoy my visit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Am visiting family interstate for 2 days,staying overnight then leaving. Staying with my parents and will visit my younger sister and her family also, as they live in the same town. I have to stay with parents as sister has 2 kids (17...

Why am I upset that none of my dad's family congratulated me on my wedding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Hey, This is more a question on advise on how to control my feelings. I'm not particularly close to my dads family, always been excluded from family events (I.e wasn't even invited to my Dads wedding or were my two sisters from his second ...

How do I change his mind? How do I move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

28 December 2017 (F) - I am 22 female living in India. I am in relationship with this guy A for almost 6 years. We both are working and financial stable . My bf cheated on me couple of years back and I was devastated .Then after few months we patched up and things were ...

I told my wife the truth and she is furious!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

28 December 2017 (M) - I have been married to my wife for about 11 years now and have 2 kids, a girl aged 8 and a boy aged 4. Recently I was on a night out with friends and were at this bar where we met a few girls and ended up going to their apartment which was nearby. ...

How do I tell my mum that we're back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - I've been through a bit of a messy break-up in the last 6 months. Naturally I turned to my mum for advice/someone to cry to. I've told her a lot of the problems me and my bf had been having, and how he'd been treating me. As far as she's concerned, ...

Family troubles have me at my wits end

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

26 December 2017 (F) - I’m in a tough spot. Due to some circumstances, I am living with my boyfriend and his siblings in their parents summer home. It was a very good living situation - none of us paid rent and we had a huge house to the four of us while his parent...

Cannot accept my background and heritage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

26 December 2017 (F) - I can’t identify with my European parents and nationality. I have been living in the States for the last three decades but along my life I have encountered people from my nationality. I don’t mean to sound judgemental here but everyone from where I ...

No Christmas gift from him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

26 December 2017 (F) - I have a December birthday and my boyfriend of 9months got me a gift for my birthday but today on Chritsmas no gift. He got one from me. After his family left I asked if he had a gift for me, he said no he ran out of money and hopes to take me...

Parents can't believe I don't want children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - Hello aunts I was at my family holiday dinner and I said that I don’t want to have kids to my family and they looked at me like a deer in the headlights. My parents are miserable (arranged marriage). I was born in a communist country but I came here ...

Career, family, marriage and my life are challenging me! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - Hi. I am 26, single forever and unemploymed forever. I have done my MSc in Biotechnology. Since then it's been 3 and half years that I am still unemployed after giving hundreds of interviews. I was so interested in the field of research in ...

Married man taking me for a ride and dumping without closure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - I am 34 single been in a few bad relations and have always been dumped. After 4 years I recently met this man online and he started off with lies. It turned out he was married with a Pico and he says it's his conscience which made him speak the ...

I feel I shouldn't move in til he sorts his children's visitation issue.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 2 years now. we live separately for the moment he has his home and I have mine. He has asked me to move in his home but, I have declined at the moment for this story I will tell. he has 3 children 9,10 and 18. I have ...

My boyfriend regrets telling me about the woman who gets naked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have a predicament. I've been dating a really nice man for the past year. However, there is this one friend of his family member who in the past 10 years has removed all her clothing and targeting him lets just say more than once. He swears he has ...

Going cold on wedding plans

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I'm engaged to be married next August, and although I do not have any doubts over whether it's what I want, or my fiancée feelings either, I'm just not excited about any part of it. Recently we have been seeing friends and family due to Christmas...

I don't think I can ever trust again...Even my family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

19 December 2017 (M) - Generally, I am not open at all. Not shy either. Just prefer to keep things private and off limits. This has happened because I've lost trust so many times that I built up this barrier, and I know it's unhealthy. But that's happened because of ...

I'm crushing on my ex's brother, his partner is my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I no this might sound really bad. But I am so confused right now!! I split with my ex over 3 years ago we have a child together. I have stayed close with his brother and with The brothers current partner. Me and the brother have always been flirty ...

Husband is cheating, wants me to leave the marital home.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I hope you can give me some advice. My husband of 19 years asked for a divorce in April this year, straight after I finished treatment for breast cancer. There has been no intimacy for 2 years now. He has refused to leave the family home ...

An older man wants me to move in as a live in lover.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - hi im kinda thinking about maybe accepting this proposal to be this guys full time sort of live in lover.He was the one who suggested it would make him a kinda suger daddy. He seems very nice (we have met on 3 occasions now and althogh i manage...

Did this Married Man forget his former mistress already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I dated a Married Man (MM) for a year and a half. We both worked at my dad’s office. He got caught by his wife 3 times but never left me. The 3rd time he got caught things got pretty bad. He started going to counseling and distanced himself from me. ...

21 year old currently lost in the world, any help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Hello all, Lately, I have grown incredibly depressed. It seems like last year, I had everything I could of wanted at the time. I had a boyfriend, I lived in a nice house, I had a great and fun job, I had a good relationship with my co-...

My sister is toxic and bitter, and she hates me, what do I do about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I have a sister who I love only for the fact that she is my blood, but everything else about her I just can't stand because we have a toxic relationship ever since I was a kid she always told me that I'm ugly, that I'm dumb, that i am ...

My father and I have different views on life and it's holding me back from being myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - I live with my mom and dad while working and going to school part time to finish my degree. My mom and I have always been close but my dad and I not so much. I was always his little 'princess' growing up and loved to go camping/fishing ...

I feel lost in life, how do I find my path and carry on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - Please note I'm not feeling suicidal and have no plans to go down that route, I am simply feeling lost and confused. Ever since my first and only girlfriend broke up with me not 11 months ago I've been effectively listing through life without a p...

Her kids and mine are cousins, is it okay to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

16 December 2017 (M) - So I have started to date or have been with and seen, my ex wife’s brothers ex wife I have a son with my ex and she has two kids with her ex who is my ex wife’s brother. Our kids are cousins but we both want no more kids. We both feel this could be ...

I always seek validation, but I shouldn't really need it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - Why do I attract these men or better yet these people in my life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 next month and I am at a dead end with men . I have stoped daring and having sex for the last year an a half but I don’t jnow why I attract men that are ...

Just lost a parent and he’s gone away. Should I break up with him for this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Hi All, Just looking for some advice at what is already a confusing and low time. I’ve just lost a very close family member, a parent and I feel like my partner hasn’t been as supportive as he could. I’m not taking it well at all. We were very clo...

Troubled relationship don't know how to deal with my mother in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Can someone help me to identify what personality trait my mother in law has? She is not a very motherly figure. She has 2 daughter and 1 son who is my husband. She look up on the first daughter as she has luxury lifestyle,but behind that she ...

I want to help my niece but I'm not sure how to do so

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - So, I have a niece that just turned 18 and I just turned 25, my sister had her early and our parents had me when they were a little older. So, my niece has always been very shy and quite. But she started to break out of her shell when she was in ...

My girlfriend and I only get to see one another every 3 months

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

9 December 2017 (M) - I'm almost have one year dating with my girlfriend and the problem is that we don't see each other often.we might take about 3 months before seeing each other. my girlfriend is 18 years old but her parents doesn't allow her to go out for funny wi...

His daughter found my text messages to him and now he wants to cool things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

6 December 2017 (F) - Hi I met a guy whom Ive known for years .. he was married before twenty years ago . He has three kids two grown up another who is eleven he lived with a woman before but didn’t work out I’ve just been seperated six months and for years I ignored ...

How can I get over this embarrassment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

6 December 2017 (F) - This boy I like knows I was spanked and now I can’t face seeing him ever again. Me and my brother got caught skipping class. Mom was so pissed she had us stay in our rooms all afternoon. When dad came home, my brother got to go down stairs but cus ...

His family is getting me down. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

6 December 2017 (F) - Hi everyone.. i need help and opinion from you about my husband. We are newly married and still living with his parents house for financial security and cultural things. We plan that once we can financially stable we will move out and live on ...

My sons are using the house for dating. What should I tell them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

5 December 2017 (M) - I’m a single dad of two teenage boys, one is 17 (almost 18) the other is 15. My oldest has a girlfriend and recently I found out they have been using my house after school for their hook up spot. I came home from work last week and found an empt...

Was my childhood strange?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I would really appreciate your help since I need some perspective on the relationship I had with my mom. I know she loved me and did the best she could, but I sometimes felt abandoned by her. She decided to have a ch...

Do I stay with boyfriend or leave and hope something will happen with this other man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

3 December 2017 (F) - Hi everyone Looking for some advice. Im 32 years old and when I was 18 I met a lad (lets call him A) through a group of friends. I had just recently entered a relationship and A also had a girlfriend who he had been with a few years. There was...

I broke it off. Was I right? How do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

3 December 2017 (M) - I was with her for 1 year. Everything was going great until 3-4 months in we started having problems. We both made mistakes and we’ve been on and off many times. We somehow managed to move past all of that and we fell in love. It’s then when we got ...

My boyfriend's mother isn't accepting of my children and myself

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

2 December 2017 (F) - i met my boyfriend 6yrs ago I have 2 children from previous relationship and left their father due to domestic violence. We are happy and since meeting my boyfriend we have so much in common and my children love him like a dad. We met his mum and ...