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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Any advice on regaining some sort of power in a casual relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - Hi, I find myself in a bad situation, the classic casual hook up turned messy. I am seeing a younger man casually (I didnt think there was a future in it because of the age difference) and now I am having the usual problems associated with ...

Is this just a lack or courage or a sign I shouldn't end it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - I'm struggling to let go of a bad relationship and need to know whether what I am feeling is normal? We've been together for over 4 years and I love him a lot, but we've had lots of problems in that time, mainly to do with the fact I've never ...

I love him, but he hardly pays any attention to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with someone who I've known for years. And for about a year he'd been begging to get to know me more and often told me how much he admired me. I've been hesitant because he lives in a totally different country but ...

I am afraid that our "relationship" is more physical than emotional for him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I've been dating this man for about 2 months now and am concerned where our "relationship" is going. When we first started talking I told him I was not interested in any type of relationship or fling or anything in between. Despite that we began ...

Everything seemed to change once we got engaged

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - I have just gonna engaged in May.. I have known him since 2007. We have been good friends since then. I have never noticed his presence in my life. I always end up with different guys and run to him crying confiding to him my breakup stories. He has ...

My boyfriend only calls me to spend the night then pretends he's busy for work the day after.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - hii am a totally confused lady..i have dated my boyfriend for two months now heading three.and i like him alot hs everything av ever wanted in a man but the problem is i think either he is seing another person or he is just using me for sex...he ...

Is this relationship hopeless and we are just not compatible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. Our relationship is very complicated! But we love each other. Somedays are wonderful we get along great. Then somedays we fight for days and hate each other and wanna be done I get emotional and hes an ...

I'm interested in a guy, and he likes me, but he had a one night stand with my friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hi all, would really appreciate some advice. Around three/four months ago my relationship of three and a half years started to break down. Its slowly been starting to die for the last year but I guess we didn't want to face it. Therefore when t...

Is this where I draw the line, are there 'rules' for when you are told to F yourself?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has said "fuck you" to me at increasing frequency. I remember the first time being offended, he said it with anger towards me in an argument. The next time it made an impression, I remember thinking I was numb to hearing it, and ...

What are possible reasons for a man to distance himself when another woman is NOT involved?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - I'd like to know some of the main reasons a man (35) would distance himself, after 3 years together, to the point of a break up if there isn't another woman involved. Let's say said man is distancing himself, drastically, but still telling hi...

Am I overthinking or has the relationship run its course?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - Iv been with my partner for 3 and a half years.we live together. We have got to the stage where I feel we should either get married and be ttogether long term or not be together atall... recently I have been looking at him and thinking,I don't...

My partner's low libido is killing my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - Hi there, Myself and my girlfriend have been together almost a year. Since December last year my partner hasn't really initiated any sexual intimacy at all- once or twice when shes been drunk, after an argument etc. Majority of the time I h...

The spark is gone, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - Ok so im going out with my boyfriend just over a year we moved in a month after we started dating. I love him but it feels like the spark has gone. He gets on great with my family and i get on great with his. He is very funny and we have the same ...

He's become distant, why do you think that is in my case?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

9 September 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and recently he asked me to move in with him. I told him I wasn't sure because he spends most of his time with his friends and I don't want to move in to basically live myself (I've posted ...

How do I tell new guy that I need to be single, and how do I get over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I just had my first boyfriend and I'm almost positive that I'm in love with him, but we broke up two weeks ago. I just got to college and I was thinking to get over him I needed a rebound, so I started hanging out with this guy and we've made out. ...

Crossroads in my love life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my partner for a very long time, 14 years to be precise, and I'm only 32 years old, hes 34. For the 1st 5-8 years the relationship was perfect, the sex was good and we were, and still are, great friends, really close companions...

My ex partner expects everything from me ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

4 September 2013 (F) - I can't take this, me and my ex have a baby together. He won't move out of my house I met someone new and we were hanging out one thing lead to another. Now my ex is telling me he has rights and he will make my life extremely difficult if I d...

Am I just feeling this need to see him because now he's not mine anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

3 September 2013 (F) - I'm in a tricky situation right, and I would really appreciate it if you guys could help! I'm 18 years old and during spring this year, I started dating my best friend. We're in the same class, and by april we were a couple. He had liked me sin...

I need help leaving my emotionally abusive boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

3 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 and a half years and I want to leave him but I don't know how. In a sense I am frightened of what he'll do if we break up. About 2 years ago, we broke up for 4 months. I moved on and dated someone else,...

If he loves me, shouldn't he want to be intimate more often?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - My husband and I are celebrating our second wedding anniversary in October. We have been together for 6 years and have two beautiful but trying daughters. This weekend we had a huge fight and when I confronted him about the fact that he doesn't ...

Help with boyfriend please. He's been increasingly distant, with no contact for past 5 days.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. We don't live together but see each other a few times a week and will stay over at the other's house on the weekends. Things the last 6 months or so have been so horrible. We basicall...