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Archived questions from: August, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

She was texting and working during our date and seems to be ghosting me! Do I go on our next date?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1946 days ago

28 August 2019 (M) - About a week ago I went out with a girl that I dated and was intimate with for 5 months a year ago. We drifted apart as she moved to another state but remained in contact during that year apart, texting and calling on and off. She's now moved ...

Can a relationship develop with a girl from a different country I’ve only met once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1952 days ago

25 August 2019 (M) - Hi all. I was at my friend’s wedding last weekend here in the Uk and I met one of his friend’s at a house party after. She was from the States and we must have spent about 4 hours talking. In my mind we got on really well and she has been on my mind ...

My partner has quit spending time with our babies to meet his ex behind my back and has photos of her in his phone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1952 days ago

24 August 2019 (F) - I am currently off from work and school so I have been dedicating myself to housework and the kids so I have been more aware of things. Lately my partner has been coming home really late which he randomly starts doing but it imeadiatly sets off the ...

Want to make sure this guy is on the same page as me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

23 August 2019 (F) - I’ve been seeing a lovely man for nearly 4 months now. We met online and arranged a date a few days later and it’s been amazing ever since. He has his own home and 3 children (2 boys 11yr and 13yrs and a 5yr old girl) from a previous relationship ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to understand that I want more from the LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1952 days ago

23 August 2019 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend since two years. It is mostly a long distance thing. Previously, like every relationship it used to be very romantic, but now it seems the spark is gone. He is no longer romantic, he no longer ...

He's ready to settle, but I love having my own life. What can I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1952 days ago

21 August 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 4 years. We met at uni. When I met him, I had just come home from New Zealand. It was the 3rd country I’d worked in in three years, and I was ready to settle in one place for a while and study. We were ...

There's less passion with this relationship and I am wondering what that means

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1714 days ago

19 August 2019 (M) - I'm seeing a girl now for the last few months on/off. We met on a dating app and went out a handful of times before I got injured and wasn't able to drive for about 2-3 months. We kept in contact and now things are getting more serious now that I ...

Do I leave a 10 year relationship? Or settle for her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1395 days ago

18 August 2019 (M) - Hello all. This post is as much venting as asking for others input. The sad truth is that I have nobody to talk to. So sorry if it is long. The big life question I have is: break up with my girlfriend, or settle for her. It is more than just...

Will he come back to me again after taking space?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1956 days ago

15 August 2019 (F) - I met a wonderful guy a few months ago and we hit it off immediately. He told me that I was everything he ever wanted in a relationship and I felt the same. He has a young son (3) with his ex girlfriend and I was introduced to him a couple weeks ago ...

I feel like I’m grieving someone who is still alive. How do I let go and cope with losing someone to addiction & mental health issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1964 days ago

13 August 2019 (F) - My ex-fiancé was the man of my dreams. He proposed this year after dating for three years. A few months later, his personality suddenly changed. He became disrespectful and manipulative. He then admitted to having severe depression and anxiety ...

I really like this girl but I don't know where to go from here

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1902 days ago

12 August 2019 (M) - I dont know what to do here! please help, sorry ahead of time this is kind of long. I work at a book store that this girl is a customer of. ( we have a strict rule about not asking out customers, reasonable rule, i have no arguments about ...

Is my boyfriend just going through a phase? Trying to impress a friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

11 August 2019 (F) - Im in this relationship for like about 2 years now and things have changed somuch recently. At first my BF was super nice to me and all was working out. We used to go out sometimes to places and have fun and he was like always very kind and sweet. ...

Do I go back to my ex or see if theres potential with the new guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1964 days ago

11 August 2019 (F) - Almost 2 years ago i started a relationship with a guy (call him A), he didnt work and suffered with ptsd and would tell elaborate lies. After 4 months we ended things so to speak, we drifted apart very fast. Fast forward to 2 month ago and i joined ...

I want more from my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1966 days ago

9 August 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We moved in together around 4 months ago. I love him, he loves me. At the start of the relationship he was the one persuing me and wanting more of my time and attention. Now the tables have turned. I want to ...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's interactions with our mutual friend/coworker

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1966 days ago

9 August 2019 (F) - Part of me just wants to vent my feelings to people who don't know my situation, but also, I just don't know what to do. (Sorry, this will be long) The situation between my boyfriend and I has been up and down. Not like big arguments or any...

He's coming on way too strong but I can't decide if he's genuine or manipulative?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1967 days ago

9 August 2019 (F) - Me and this man have been dating for 6 months, but we have been having alot of arguments the past 3 months it's almost a weekly thing. I do like him but i don't want to make it as an official 'relationship' till i make sure he's the right man, ...

My best friend is mad at me for not telling him I dated someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1969 days ago

8 August 2019 (F) - About a year ago I asked a question regarding dating my best friend after my divorce . To give people a general background I’m divorced I’ve been friends over 13 years with an American man we started as pen pals. We have been there for eac...

He never asks about me our conversations are shallow

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1969 days ago

8 August 2019 (F) - So I've been dating X for a little over a month, while we are dating exclusively we are taking it slow and are not in a relationship yet. He's a super nice and overall great guy, our dates are fun, he respects my space and I feel it's going great......

I regret my decision to have an abortion and now I want another baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1969 days ago

8 August 2019 (F) - Hi everyone, So I had an abortion at Christmas. My boyfriend and I were only together for 6 months, we have no money and we live in my flat. At the time it seemed like the sensible decision. However 8 months later, I'm regretting the decisi...

Boyfriend still in touch with ex says he needs his privacy and says he will pay for sex. Is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1952 days ago

8 August 2019 (F) - My boyfriend has a well paid job and I know he has money, but he is too stingy. We had a small argument over money issue and he told me, if he want sex, he will just make a call and he will get it and that he needs his privacy that's why he don't ...

I am worried about my boyfriend's baby mama

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1968 days ago

7 August 2019 (F) - Hello i am a young girl of 18 am dating a guy of 22 he has a child which hurt me most at times when i think of it . I truly love him and wish i could spend the rest of my life with him . He love me so much but my problem is his baby mama ,she still ...

I think my girlfriend is bored and prefers living away from me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1969 days ago

5 August 2019 (M) - I'm worried my girlfriend is getting bored with our relationship. We've been together nearly 4 years. She keeps asking questions like "Do you ever feel like we're more like friends than a couple?" or "Do you ever wonder if we're a normal couple?". ...

Do I give my ex extra time to pay me back or go to court?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1972 days ago

5 August 2019 (F) - I was dating a guy for almost a year, he had had a very bad time with his health and wasnt working. He slowly got better and the doctor signed him off sick so he could work. In the time he wasnt working i offered to lend him a bit of money which he ...

I still find it difficult to feel worthy of being loved or at least, to give love. How do I overcome this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1972 days ago

4 August 2019 (F) - I've lived in a very unstable family. Basically, my dad was emotionally and physically abusive with me and my mom, I've grown up in family problems and abuse for years, also my dad being a cheater (cheating 5 times on my mom) and being greedy and ...

Even divorcees with kids have it better than me when it comes to dating and marriage! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1972 days ago

2 August 2019 (F) - This is more like a frustration rant. My last relationship ended years ago. Since then, I have been going on dates, dating events etc but have not found anyone suitable. A year back, I have also signed with matchmaking agencies where I spent over ...

Boyfriend deleted his ex girlfriend's texts

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1975 days ago

1 August 2019 (F) - I've been living with my bf now for almost 2 years. Recently, his ex texted him again. I know because he told me that she did. I asked to read the texts a few days later, but was told that they had been deleted. I asked why he had deleted the...