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Archived questions from: April, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Whenever we disagree he brings up everything that has ever made him mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

30 April 2019 (F) - Well, my boyfriend and I have been dating 20 months. He said God brought us together but this relationship has been emotionally draining. He has such a quit temper that even when I say things that are right I'm still wrong. He is not a person that ...

Was I too slow in making the right move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

28 April 2019 (M) - Hello everyone, I met a girl like two month back and from then we started chatting and talking. I really like her even from the first time I saw her, I decided to take things further slowly(from being friend to relationship). But one thing I noticed ...

Do you believe in reincarnation or soulmates?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

26 April 2019 (F) - Do any of you believe in reincarnation or soulmates? My partner and I have such a deep connection that was so instant that it was like we've known each other for years. So I was just curious if anyone else has experienced anything similar. ...

Is it possible that a man could be so nervous that he can't stop shivering around women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2040 days ago

26 April 2019 (F) - I've been seeing this man for about 2 months, everything was going great but I'm not sure how can i make him more comfortable around me whenever we are on a date. I have more experience with men but he claims that I'm the first girl who went on a ...

I know I can't trust him again but I also want to tell him let's work on it and can figure it out. What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2041 days ago

25 April 2019 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 2.5 months who is going through a separation. He has treated me better than anyone I've been with before and I was really starting to imagine a life with him. The gestures he made, how he made me feel, our ...

How do you stop wanting something that you can never have?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

25 April 2019 (M) - I guess I’ll start with a bit of a background. My cousin is the son of my aunt, my father’s sister, now he’s 18 and I’m 18. We spent a lot of time together when we were children because our families lived very close each to other. We were great ...

I don't think he's over his ex yet. What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

23 April 2019 (F) - To cut a long story short...A guy I’ve dated previously (but never been in a relationship with) and someone who remained a friend for about 5 years suddenly exited his toxic relationship of six months. I hadn’t seen this friend in a year or so but ...

He doesn't seem to want to be my friend after I 'rejected' him, is he playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

22 April 2019 (F) - Hi everyone! So I became friends with this guy about a year ago, we work in similar types of jobs (not together) and we get on, mostly speaking through mutual friends. He's very different to me, I'm quite a girly girl, and he's quite nerdy, but we ...

Despite all the nonsense I still wanted him but the "Facebook relationship" woman he's never met in real life reaps all the benefits

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

22 April 2019 (F) - He is a typical Mr Unavailable. We were close once and we’d text all the time. I was coming out of a destructive relationship and soon our involvement became romantic. Despite his advances and “promises”, he was just unable to commit to a ...

I think my friend is after someone I want to date. She has a reputation of doing this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2045 days ago

21 April 2019 (F) - I think my friend is chatting up the man she knows i want to be with. I have been talking to a man off a dating site had many dates and seeing how things go. My friend was on the same site but left because she thought she found someone but it didnt ...

What's wrong with me? I've always been conditioned to want certain things out of life but none of them fit my idea of my most honest self

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2045 days ago

21 April 2019 (F) - How can I accept who I am? for the last 30 years all I have been conditioned to want is 1. Get married 2. Buy a house 3. Make babies and compete with your neighbor to show who is happier - fancier - richer etc . My family is quite dysfunc...

How could I allow this guy to use me for sex?! I feel awful and I've lost all trust in men!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

20 April 2019 (F) - I’ve recently came out of a long term relationship so I’m very new to dating.when I went out with friends I met a great guy, we chatted a lot and there was an instant spark between us, we exchanged numbers, we spoke a lot over the phone for about a ...

How do I avoid talking about my family when it comes to dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2048 days ago

19 April 2019 (F) - How can I avoid my family or topics of my family now that I am back into the dating game ? My family is highly dysfunctional and untrustworthy; both my parents verbally abused me when I was younger and nothing was ever good enough. To this ...

Adult son's fiance is too old for him

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2046 days ago

14 April 2019 (M) - My wife and I have been aware of our son’s dating preferences since he left home for college. He prefers older women. We believed it was a phase and did our best not to get bent out of shape. We have met several of his older girlfriends over the ...

There is something wrong with me, as soon as we have sex I dump them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - I daydream about sex most if the time.I read about it, and I watch it. I also find dates, the person usually starts to like me and we hit it off, then we have sex, and then I immediatley cut them off, even if i've enjoyed it I just need to find ...

I think I am being manipulated into being Plan B

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2041 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - My ex who dated me for almost 5 years suddenly blocked me on whatsapp and 3 weeks later sent me a break up letter. I did not react but I cried and still cry. I went online 2 days ago and saw that his ex wife has new pictures in his new house wh...

LDR wont introduce me to his teenager son which means we cant spend some weekends together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months He is 68yrs old has 15 yr old alternate wknds I am 62 one son 28 lives away he wont introduce me to his son so we can spend wknds together Am I being unreasonable? I work f/t m-f ...

Will he take me back even though I have acted like a nutter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I posted once before - see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everything-was-perfect-until-he-lost-his-nan.html Since then it’s all been pretty messy.. I went a little psycho for a while, kept trying to contact him etc to which he completely ignor...

I get dates but then I think there might be somebody better so I ghost them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

13 April 2019 (M) - Hello everyone, I am looking for some help and would be grateful for your opinions. I'm single and looking for a woman, and I've had 13 dates so far this year. I'm not a fussy guy and I liked 9 of them. With 7 of these 9, I have had second or th...

Looking back forces me to ask myself if every relationship is different.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

12 April 2019 (F) - I was going through old files and found a video of me singing with my ex... Yeah I know I can already see the "bad idea! Bad idea!!" red flags going up haha I'm long since over it. Today it's like a painful lesson that has taught me more empathy ...

I have feelings for a younger woman that's moved into my home and I don't know what I should do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

11 April 2019 (M) - Dear 'Cupid' I have been in a sexless relationship for over a year and we finally split up. My evenings became about beer and take out and over many months I put on weight and didn't bother with dating or about the opposite sex barely at all. ...

She seems like a nice girl, but I think she is also a fake profile who follows me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

10 April 2019 (M) - Hi ladies and gentlemen Sorry, this is going to be a long and very weird story. I met a girl, we spent 1 day together (platonic) and it was nice. we kept in touch and grew closer but we live 9 hours by car away from each other so didn't see ea...

If he takes days to respond, is he not interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2055 days ago

9 April 2019 (F) - I met this guy online a few months ago, we live an hour away from each other. We were talking casually for about a month before meeting up. We had a great date and ended up hooking up afterwards. I wasn't planning on it but it sort of happened when ...

I think I got HPV from my new boyfriend which could only mean he's cheating on me, right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

9 April 2019 (F) - I think my new boyfriend is cheating on me. I have recently been to the doctors because i am so tired and have a problem on my throat / back of my mouth. We use protection so i know im not pregnant. The doctor told me i have hpv. I know the only ...

I'm anxious about wanting a baby soon because of how my life has been but my boyfriend is in no hurry. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

9 April 2019 (F) - I am about to turn 26 and I'm freaking out about my age. Technically I know I'm still very young, but I'm scared about having kids too late. This is getting concerning for my boyfriend, and I'm trying not to bring the topic up too often now. My m...

Does anyone have any advice on dating a divorced man with 2 young children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

9 April 2019 (F) - Does anyone have any advice on dating a divorced man with 2 young boys (2 and 3 years old)? He's 6 years older than I am and from the moment we met, there was an instant connection. He treats me much better than I've ever been before and I believe ...

How do you break up after 2 dates with a nice person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

8 April 2019 (M) - How do you break it off with someone who has been very nice and seems very keen but is maybe a bit too full on after 2 dates? What words would you use to not hurt their feelings?...

Are these warning signs after a second date? Should I give it a go or run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

8 April 2019 (M) - Hi all, I am mentally quite stuck and would really appreciate some advice. A bit of background. I am 35 years old and have had 2 relationships in my life. One for 3 years from the age of 24 and one for 6 years from the age of 28. Both were fl...

I'm not really into the new guy. Do I give him a chance or am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

8 April 2019 (F) - I have been single for 6 months and have recently got back into dating. I say dating - I have met up with one person so far as the 'pool' is so small where I live - even online. The guy I have met is nice. He is sweet, kind, laid back but I ...

My boyfriend won't tell anyone that I'm a part of his life and I feel like a dirty secret

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - My Boyfriend refuses to tell anyone about me he claims he is private . He won't even tell his parents about me claims he is fighting with his Mother... yet she text him every day he visits her at Christmas and she just sent him flowers. This has ...

My boyfriend keeps trying to compete with my wealthy family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - I'm confused about this man who likes me. I come from a wealthy family, and i promise that I never brag about it. Basically, this man who's interested in me told me that he likes me. But, he keeps telling me how independent he is, how many ...

I think I am messed up and that I messed up this relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - Hi everyone, I’ve had something very strange happen to me and I’m hoping someone can help me work out what to do about it. I’ve been crushing on a man for about 18 months now. He’s physically not my usual type, but the minute I met him I had a ...

I am willing but don't want to move too fast.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2059 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid I am single and have been for the last 20 yrs. Only thingvI do is work and come home to an empty house my children are grown and on their own. I really want to get back out in the dating world but I am afraid of getting hurt again my pass ...

How do I chose the one to spend my life with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

6 April 2019 (F) - i got into so much mess its driving me insane. I cant find my way anymore im in two long term relationships one of 21 years and one of 2 years I don't know what to do. I cant seem to make a choice through uncertainty, feeling scared of the pain and ...

He seems to have cut off all feelings for everyone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2061 days ago

5 April 2019 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a few month we are friends and he knows i like him more than that. He said he doesnt want to hurt me and would stop the fun we are having. I dont want to stop the fun and it wont be more than what we have but a few times ...

His insensitive comment makes me want to just leave him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

5 April 2019 (F) - I've been with boyfriend for 8 years now. We have had our bad patches and arguments, but the past couple of years have been really good, good communication, great sex, laughter, good times generally. We don't live together due to work commitments in ...

I cannot flirt, create a spark or connect sexually with women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2062 days ago

5 April 2019 (M) - I find it impossible to give off sexual vibes. I revert straight into a friendship style of communication. If there’s ever any slight indication of sexual interest from someone I freak out and go into a seemingly calm and causal interaction which ...

Its seems being committed is hard work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

4 April 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 4 years. We rent an apartment together and we have a good life. He's adorable and funny and kind, but sometimes I feel like I love him more as a friend than a lover, and I don't know if that's normal or ...

My older boyfriend wants me to pretend to be his daughter.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

4 April 2019 (F) - I dont think age should matter in a true loving relationship. My dad thinks otherwise and so I have moved out and anto my bf's place a few months ago. Although he is about 10 years older than me he is just so adorable. I like so love him to pieces ...

My boyfriend lost his business and has stopped talking to me and his friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2062 days ago

4 April 2019 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months now, re just recently had to close down his business and is unemployed now. About 3 weeks ago he stopped talking to me, I thought I got mad at me so I leave him alone, 3 days in I texted him agai...

Does he care or not care ... he keeps contacting me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2065 days ago

3 April 2019 (F) - I have an ex who reached out to me six months after ghosting me, and tries to pretend nothing came between us. I don’t respond, and he later replies in a passive aggressive manner as if to say “don’t worry I don’t care anyway”. A bit of history, ...

My boyfriend defends his ex when I get upset she visits when I am not there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2065 days ago

1 April 2019 (F) - im asian and my bf is european, we been 5 month know each other and we already meet also with his parents, my case is i really dont like and never accept when my boy still welcome her ex, i know they was together 5 year before. this girl dont even ...