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My boyfriend defends his ex when I get upset she visits when I am not there

Tagged as: Dating, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (1 April 2019) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2019)
A female Indonesia age 30-35, *ey writes:

im asian and my bf is european, we been 5 month know each other and we already meet also with his parents, my case is i really dont like and never accept when my boy still welcome her ex, i know they was together 5 year before. this girl dont even shy to come to his apartemen when i was there, first my bf wont introducting me cause he scared im going to upset her, and then he call me when his ex come and that girl doesnt talk anything also me, she just talk and talk always to my bf when i am front of them that make me annoying. when my bf see i am upset he said i dont need to be upset and just trust him, and i really disapointed everytime i blame his ex and talk bad about her cause i dont like her. he just said "you dont trust me then" what should i do ? just let this run in my life ? he said she need help she live alone and i will help if she ask. that is, this girl i know dating with old guy but i really upset why she commin in our life even not often and my bf always getting upset to me when i blame this and said he defending her and he said he defending him self not her.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2019):

N91 agony auntSo he is worried about his current GF upsetting his ex. Understood.

Please tell us why you’re wasting your time with this guy?

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A female reader, Angela9999003 United States +, writes (3 April 2019):

Old saying goes 2 is a company &3 is a crowd,your not married leave this per son. Your significant other is dragging you alone all while keeping a "friendship" with an ex. Your significant other needs to make you a priority and your feelings, Trust is not the problem, his lack of priorities. If he has a child with his ex I can see the communication other than that he is having his cake and eatting it too. Your worth more than that,

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