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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I chose between 2 great guys? Stuck between a rock and a hard place

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I dated a guy for 6 mos....we'll call him Bob. Bob and I are both from military backgrounds, stable financially, both have one daughter and 2 grandkids and we're both in our 50's. I am an eternal optimist and a hopeful romantic. I am very ...

My ex loves me more than his girlfriend. I don't know what to say the feelings are not returned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - So basically I went out with this guy two years ago - we'd been friends for a year or so before that. I have to admit that I wasn't CRAZY about him and I'd just got out of a really long relationship so it was half for rebound but needless to say we ...

Am I in the wrong for wanting to end things and move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - Ive been in a monogamous relationship with a woman and we have recently decided to become more serious. As I get to know this person more I find out things that bother me. I'm sure there are things that bother her about me but what relationship ...

If I hate him, can someone please help me figure out why I stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I'm seeing a man I like sometimes, hate sometimes who annoys me most of the time. He can be sweet but still. Now I'm shocked that I've spent seven months with him! He's the opposite of what I appreciate in a man: ungentlemanly, often conceited and ...

GF went on holiday without me and packed her sexy lingerie. What does this mean?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - My girlfriend went on holiday without me, she says for a break from everything, but she took her sexy lingerie with her. When asked why, she replied that she did not even notice, just grabbed a handful of undies and packed them. What does this...

Should I make the first move on him? ...Again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Ok, well I'm a nearly sixteen female and the guy I like is a year and a half older than me. I began to like him about five or six months ago, and now I basically love him. Thing is, he won't talk to me even though we kissed a few weeks back und...

I can't get over this mystery breakup.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - Hey guys, well, I'm trying to find the best advice on how to move on with my life or keep fighting for my true love. My ex girlfriend and I went out for 6 months and we were a decent couple, we never had big problems or any huge fights while we...

I don't believe I can satisfy my girlfriend physically. Should I leave her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - Appreciate any answers. I believe I can't physically satisfy my girlfriend and as a consequence believe I should leave her. I want to leave her if as I don't want a gf I can't please and I worry that this may be a reason for her leaving me so t...

Was this 'picking someone up at a bar', or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - So I just want to know if this is considered picking up a guy from a bar? There is a guy I have met but don't know too well. He is a friend of a friend. I have met him before, sat on the same table and had dinner. On my friend's birthday I hook...

Do I still have a chance at getting this girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - There is this girl I've had my eye on at school lately. I don't know her on a personal level at all because we've never spoken to each other. However I have another female friend that does know her. I had my friend ask the girl what she thought ...

Met a great guy but he's 20 years older and a "happy single". What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hi. I met this man online. I knew he was older than me (51yrs old, I'm 31) but and we became friends, we met up yesterday the first time and we went for a meal and I had a great time, and something else happened I realised I liked him more than ...

Anyone been in a relationship with a Bf in Turkey? I'd like to help him get a Visa to visit me here. How could I help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - So me and my turkish boyfriend have been going out for just over 5 months now. I met him back in august when i was there on holiday and spent a month with him, I then went back in December to see him again for just over a week and I met his pare...

Am I too traditional? If a guy was attached, is it ok for him to go out one on one with a female friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hello all, I was wondering if a guy was attached, is it ok for him to go out one on one with a female friend? Personally I wouldn't go out with an attached guy one on one even if we're just friends because I find it weird, and maybe a little disr...

I feel uncomfortable about our little argument.Was I wrong, or was he, or were we both wrong in some way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I need help, I might as well explain the whole story... Okay on Friday night me and my bf were texting quite late and he didn’t reply for a while so I said 'g2g night love you xxxx' and he still didn’t reply so I guessed he fell asleep which is ...

Are my expectations too high? What do I need to bring a great connection or real passion into our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Recently I have been thinking that there might be a better guy out there for me than my current boyfriend but I don't know if my expectations are too high? We get on well most of the time and I do feel that I love him, but I don't feel like the...

They stop caring after a short time. I think that I DESERVE romance! Is it too much to ask?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I'll start by saying this: I've never been overly obsessed with romance, like I've never chased it, if it happens then it happens. I'm 19 and I've never had anything romantic, I've never even been on a proper date, the guys I go for get comforta...

Where do I from here? Unhappy marriage. I've fallen for a married man I met on a dating site.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I have been married for over 23 years , with 2 kids and have been unhappy in my marriage for over the last 15 years as my husband had a drinking problem As a result I have lived in an abusive relationship. He gave up drinking about 4 years ag...

He's denied he's doing it, but I smelt it. I love him. But I hate him using weed. Should I talk to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for six months, and I am very happy with him, but the fact that he smokes weed is always lingering in the back of my mind. When we first started dating, he quit in order to impress me, according to his friends,...

Troubled relationship: What's the best way to handle my guy and this immature guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - PLEASE HELP!!!! It will be four years this year that I'm with my current bf...in distance relationship. We've been madly in love since we met last fall I was supposed to move to his country and continue university there but since we didn’t mana...

What should I be telling my Gf? I want her to agree to sex with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - Hi guys! My girl friend and i have been together for almost two years now but i never slept with her although she shows certain signs of wanting that but she just can't tell me in words, and i too feel the same. Help guys, what should i tell her ...

Should I give serious thought to reconciling with my ex, or is it finally time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I started talking again. For some reason, it seems to be a reoccurring thing where we’ll go for awhile without talking and then, he’ll re-enter my life. Under the circumstances, however, we’ve agreed to be friends. And that’s all ...