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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's very good to me yet doesn't do the little things that I ask. I'm worried he's cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - hi to love or not to love is my question!! i'm very happy with him, when i'm with him. when i don't see his face, when i don't hear his voice, when i don't have any picture of him in-front of me, i just think that i am in a big trouble . -he is...

Would it be alright to send her a card to her work address wishing her well on her move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (M) - Since October, I have been emailing back and forth with a girl from uni who caught my attention at the beginning of the year. She's recently been through a tough break up, and basically I just want to try to be her friend for now. We practically ...

As I passed by two girls, one of them said Bow chicka wow wow. Was that directed towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

8 January 2013 (M) - I'm preparing to leave a classroom. No biggie, right? But, as I'm about to pack up, I see two nice girls. And, I hear one say "Bow chicka wow-wow" as she passes by me. Ever since I heard the comment, I now can't stop analysing what she means. Is it ...

After finding out he lied and cheated I slept with my boyfriend's bandmate. Do I tell him before his band mate does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - I met this guy back in July, he was amazing, and for me, it was instant love...not so much for him. He had been divorced for about a year..his exwife had cheated on him. Things were great for a little while, but he was obviously not ready to be in a ...

Is there anything I can do to reduce my sex drive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I have a sex question. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two months now, im 18 hes 25. And Lately he says all ive wnated to do is have sex, and i have. Im consantly "horny" when im around him, and when im not with him i thinkg a...

I asked my BF to have STD tests before we sleep together. He says he can only get results over the phone, not on paper. Can I believe him/ how can I check the results?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Hi guys. I have a matter about health. Me and my boyfriend are going to see each other soon, he will stay with me for 2 weeks. We have planned to sleep together this time, it will be the first time of us. And for health safety, I asked him to take ...

Boyfriend who cheated in the past is now almost perfect, but I can't get over the trust issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. It's never really felt and still to this day does not feel like a real relationship to me. Previously I've always had a very close connection with bfs, we've lived together from an early stage, ...

She wants the relationship to progress slowly, but I'm not sure how much slower I can go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (M) - I am very much in love with my girlfriend and being with her has been one of the best years in my life. Like all new relationships, when we first met it was all about being with each other - any minute we could steal together we would make sure we ...

She lost interest in me because I let her pay for her part of the meal on our first date!

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

8 January 2013 (M) - I had a situation with a woman I really liked, and need you opinion on this. I 've met this girl in a building that I work at. She works for a different company, and I saw her several times at lunch before we started talking. We just talked for ...

Do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - *I see him where he works often and he'll walk around and talk to me for an hour sometimes 2. *He'll tease me about things. *He walks me to my car, in which we talk for another 10 minutes outside. *Texts me at least every other day seeing...

When my boyfriend has any problem, he goes to his best friend (a girl) and not me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone,I'v been dating my boyfriend for over 4 years,my boyfriend has this best friend who is a girl and they have been friends since kindergarden and over the years I'v become friends with her too,we hang out together..BUT I really feel bad ...

I am sick of my B/f sneaking around behind my back to jerk off! Is it normal for men to be like that?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Okay so anybody's advice would be excellent, especially a womans. I'm 18 and have been with my 22 year old boyfriend for 1 and a half years, our sex life is average, and I'm always keen even if I don't finish. He's jerked off to internet porn during ...

Why does my gf act like an impossible and hysterical child during arguments?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (M) - I can't seem to understand my girlfriends actions sometimes. We are from different countries, though I work and live in her country. We have been together for eight months, though she sort of left her previous boyfriend for me, who had cheated ...

I'm almost 21 never had a boyfriend and feel like such a loser

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Hello I would like to ask for help to determine why I'm so lonely. Okay to start I'm about to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend I feel like such a loser! I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what? I have a low self esteem and I also only ...

What am I doing wrong? How do I go about finding a new bf this year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - So lonely, Why can't I seem to find anyone to be with? It has been 3 years since my BF and I broke up. ( he cheated on me). I have tried to get over it but am still in counseling. I am outgoing with a great personality so my friends both mal...

My parents will not allow me to see my LDR without a chaperon. Are they outdated in their thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - This is going to be a bit long, so bear with me... My boyfriend (age 22) and I (23) have been dating a little over a year now. I moved out when I was seventeen to go to a university some distance from my house, but I am now living with my p...

Why did my boyfriend ask me if I had ever been pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - My question is not a very long. But my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a month. And a couple days ago, he asked me if I had ever been pregnant. I told him no and when I asked why he wanted to know, he said no reason. Is he just ...

Update on I was expecting to hear from him but haven't heard a word for 2 days

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - So for all who were following my story of the guy who I was expecting to come to my house but never showed up... (original story below for anyone else) Well it appears he's just fine. I didn't contact his parents or anyone, but I noticed he cha...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (M) - Hi all... I just took a girl on a date recently. We had exchanged numbers and we had previously gotten to know more about each other before via text message, so we had common ground and things to talk about. I don’t claim to be the best looking...

How do I keep from talking to much when I'm nervous around my date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - I seem to talk a lot when I'm nervous. I think my new guy was a little annoyed the other night he was trying to leave but I kept talking to him. He was polite then said baby I have to go I'm so tired. I felt so silly did I blow things? I get so ...