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writes:Ok, well I'm a nearly sixteen female and the guy I like is a year and a half older than me. I began to like him about five or six months ago, and now I basically love him. Thing is, he won't talk to me even though we kissed a few weeks back under the pressure of our mutual friends, at a disco. A different mutual friend has said he (the guy) likes me too, yet he makes no move whatsoever. I see him rarely (we go to separate schools, in the same town) so I get no chance to talk to him. But the night that we kissed, although we'd been introduced before, he didn't talk to me. I felt a bit ignored. But his friends say that's just the way he is. Everyone says he's a legend and a generally nice guy. I've been fraped on facebook a couple of times with messages to him like 'we should do that again sometime ;)' And even worse things. I was embarrassed, but my question is, Do I make another 'first' move on him, or do I leave it up to him? p.s. he is shy and I doubt he will make the move unless he's drunk.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 he knows your interested. you kissed him.
if he was interested he'd be talking to you now...
he's not.
let it go
and stop kissing boys due to peer pressure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): You did your part already, now it's his turn to show he cares about you and wants you in his life.
Believe me, if a guy is really interested in you, he would find the way to get close, and he will appreciate your moves towards him.
He just seems like he doesn't care enough
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): I am a little older than you and have also met a lot of shy guys. They are generally really nice just crap at showing it!!! :) I say make an effort to see him more and get to know him better but make it so he has to reply and be part of it instead of you doing all the work. You know what I mean? So you basically coax him out of his shell bit by bit and make it comfortable for him to talk to you and be around you. If he has feelings for you this will make him feel more comfortable expressing them and might make him open up to you. I hope it does!!
But if you have to put loads of effort in and he's still not responding then there's no point in it. He needs to know that the effort level should be equal, not always you. So good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): Leave it up to him! You've already shown your interest.
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