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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I feel like I need closure or something since our break up was so out of the blue.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

11 January 2013 (?) - I broke up with a serious boyfriend about a month ago. I found out he had been lying and doing drugs. It happened so abruptly. There were some concerns, but overall I was happy and didn't see it coming. It was a mutual breakup once I found out who ...

Is the timing just wrong for us to be together? Do I keep pursuing her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - Greetings Everyone, So here's lies my issue and I hope someone has gone through a similar thing. My girlfriend and I had been dating for roughly 7 months. The relationship was really great, we got along wonderfully, and seemed to click fast. We...

Are long distance relationships worth it? I'm finding it so painful to be apart from her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship, and it's just so painful. Nearly all of my girlfriends friends are guys, and she is very close with some of them. I know they just want to get in her pants, but she doesn't notice their intentions. ...

He's older, but his financial issues make it difficult. Is this a fair enough reason to finish this relationship with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I dated a man much older for almost two years. I was a student going to school full-time. He paid for many things and I pitched in when I could. I gave him my education checks that came in monthly to buy food, rent, etc. During the last few mon...

Is her reluctance to explore much during love making due to fact she's done all that earlier? It's confusing me. Am I being too reactive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - I'm 24 and recently engaged to very wonderful woman. I am bothered by the fact that she has had a lot more sexual partners than I have, but she won't ever tell me how many. She is from a small town and when we go visit we often run into guys sh...

How I can get him to stop watching AS MUCH porn? It troubled me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I both turn 23 next month (interesting, I know) and we've been together for a notch over 2.5 years. We used to have discussions that turned into arguments about the fact that he is my third sexual partner (my second was a one nigh...

She forgot about a pre-arranged date, again. Should we talk? Is she being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - Stupid argument? My girlfriend and I arranged to have a date night last night. She forgot about it once already, as the week progressed and she forgot about it once again last night. It's been a rather stressful week for her at work and personal...

In love with a girl who has another boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - I'm going through a very complicated relationship... I love her a lot.. I have been there with her for a quite long time about 8 months now.. She was my friend at first but I fell in love with her later on.. She had a bf and she loved him a lot.. bu...

Some queries about my relationship. Should I go on the pill? He'd like oral sex but I'm not comfortable with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year. We have used condoms, and the pull out method , when we have had sex. He wants me to try using the pill. I'm nervous about it though, as I have never used it before (he is the only person I have had sex with ...

Why did he string me along for 2 years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I started dated this guy 2 years ago. In the beginning everything was great. Then after couple of months he said we are taking it slow. So I have been patient. Then after 9 month dating I got a letter from him saying that he never broke up with the...

Saw my GF for the first time on Skype and she didn't look like her photo. Is she lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - So I have met my girlfriend about a year ago over the internet, big mistake. She said she does not date over the internet first time I asked her, then I won her heart and we have been together for a month now. She sent me pics of her but this mor...

My boyfriend is a model and I'm worried he will eventually get tired of being with a normal girl, plus we have different religious backgrounds. Are these real issues or am I being silly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I am in need of some advice on a few issues with the one guy. I will give you some background information to my situation. So I am 32 and a year ago I met a guy who is 31, he chatted me up when I was out for the day in a...

Can short guys have success with women? And if so how? I need advice on how to cope better with my height.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - I am a 5'4" male and i am very insecure about my height. I know that women love tall guys and that most of them turn their noses at the thought of dating a guy as short as me. However, I also know that some guys my height and shorter do have suc...

Breaking Up... Should I do it? Am I being too pushy or too helpful? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - Well I need some help with my relationship. Here's the background: I am 17 and he is 16. One exact year apart in age. We have been dating for 2 years and 8 months. When met I thought it was love but found out it was infatuation. Long story sho...

What I did destroyed my boyfriend. Now, how do I comfort my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - Hi! Well, this is going to be a long long story. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years, we're both our firsts everything. We normally get along great, share the same hobbies, same college (but different careers), etc. Now I'm 19 and he's 21. ...

Boyfriend versus my ex. Why should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating my Boyfriend for 5 months and recently I was texting to my ex-boyfriend,who I had dated longer than anyone, and my boyfriend at the same time. In the middle of texting I started to feel like my boyfriend was just a friend and that...

I need to get over him. Why do we keep breaking up and reuniting. How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - We've had an on and off relationship for over 3 years now. He loves me, i love him, but i always break up with him. Right now we are apart, but everytime i see him my eyes water , and i melt. all the memories come flooding back. My bestfrie...