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Archived questions from: 5 November, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I need advice on how to approach this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (M) - so im in a lil bit of a situation with some girl i like. She is a single mom (not a problem), she is 2 years older (again not a problem) and she is my ex's friend. They used to be great friends but they have had some issues before the girl i like ...

My boyfriend and I live less then five minutes apart, and yet we spend very little time together. Does it sound like he's just not interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 19, we've been together for 4 months, dating for 5. Although we live less than 5mins away from each other, we only see each other once a week. We used to contact each everyday without fail, but now it's once every three ...

Should my friend tell her fiancé that she slept with two of his friends, before they were officially a couple?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - i wanted to ask this question on behalf of one of my good friends. we were talking earlier today and i gave her some advice and wanted to know if people had differing perspectives. her and her boyfriend got together about a year ago. they were j...

Text I overreact to and get clingy with my girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (M) - I overreact to and get clingy with my girlfriend. I don't really know why, in most aspects of my life I'm rational and even keeled. But with her I'm a bit of a maniac. I ask her stupid questions and she gets annoyed by them, and then I feel like the ...

Is serial dating a bad thing to do? There's no sex involved but is it wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - I've asked a similar question before but I think people got the wrong end of the stick! Anyway. I split up with my boyfriend of seven months about a month ago, he really didn't treat me very well and I'd just had enough of him having tantrums all of ...

I was dating a guy who wanted to date other women so I finished it. Did I do the right thing or overreact?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - Hello aunties and uncles. I'm a bit confused and bewildered about a recent dating experience and I'd like some opinions or advice. I met a guy via online dating. We had several (4) really enjoyable dates over a few weeks. We chatted freely and...

Help, I'm still in love with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - hello =) ! well ,my ex boyfriend and i are friends now ,so he came to me asking for help , he wants to get back his ex gf and i'm cool with , but the problem is i'm still in love with him ,and he loves her even if she left him for another guy , so ...

Should I go out with him and tell him I am a Virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (?) - Hey…remember I talked about going to spend christmas with a boyfriend i really do not like so as to stay away from my fathers house. He said we are no longer staying in his house this december. He brought up a suggestion that we should hangout in a ...

What does my boyfriend's behaviour mean? He's still in touch with his ex and he didn't seem keen to see me after my ten day holiday.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - I've just been away on holiday with 3 other female friends for the last 10 days. Spoke and texted my BF the whole time I was away, he said how much he missed me etc. Tonight is my first night back and I've missed him like crazy, I wanted to see him ...

Parents are stopping me seeing my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months and everything was perfect (we're both 17, nearly 18). But now my parents have decided they don't want me to see him anymore and I don't know what to do. I really don't want to split up with him ...

Can you love someone and have feelings for someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years now and i believe i still love him but im not sure. See he pays half the rent and im a full time student and mom and i been thinking lately that im just using him as a crutch. i really like someone else ...

We tried once, it didn't work, should I try again with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (M) - Hi all, So I was involved with someone for a few months back in late 2010, before we decided that it wasn't working. Anyway, fast forward to mid-2011 and we decided to try to make it work again as we couldn't get over each other. But as per ...

How do you invite a guy to come over yours without them thinking you'll sleep together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - How do you invite a guy to come over yours without them thinking you'll sleep together? This guy I like and we've been seeing each other for a while now, but i still don't want to sleep with him yet till i'm comfortable and sure i'm ready. Thin...

How can I last longer when making love to my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (M) - Hey all! I was just wondering if you guys have any tips for lasting longer? I don't finish quickly all of the time but sometimes I'm done in a couple of minutes. It doesn't really bother me or my girlfriend but I figure it would be a lot better ...

Up one day... down the next????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - Hello, Im 18 and need a little advice. So me and my boyfriend have been best years for two years and actually started dating almost 3 months ago. And well a week into dating we had sex. And about 4 or 5 times after that. Then he tells me he wasn't ...

He was my first kiss. I've wanted to be with him ever since and don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - So i started being attracted to this guy and I was with him for six months i guess you could call it a constant hook up. but I'm a virgin and he is not. I had never even been kissed and he took my first kiss. When i was 16(yes i went 16 years wi...

Should I fight for our relationship, even though the feeling is gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 20 months now. We've gone through so much together, we have all these plans for a future together, and since hes my first boyfriend i've never had any experience with other guys. But im now 16 years old and I ...

My girlfriend is meeting others through an online dating site.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

5 November 2012 (M) - Hi. I am a 23 year old male, in my first year phd study. I started a relationship with my girlfriend who is 37 years old now 2 years back, then I had to leave the country for a year last year, and I just got back to US to do my phd. Our long ...

Is my partner being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship with the father of my 3 month old baby, according to our tradition, the man pays lobola, then we make a wedding, he has already paid half of the money, now he wants to pay the remaining amount but he says he does not want a ...