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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I wait around or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - My bf and i were together for 6 months living in different cities, mostly me traveling to see him and spend days at a time with him. Within the 6 months he bought a house and slowly wanted to spend more time with his friends then me, when im the one ...

What would you consider early warning signs of a controlling man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - Hi, What would you consider early warning signs if a controlling man? My boyfriend of 10 months as shown a few signs but I'm not sure if I'm over thinking. He doesn't like me wearing make up, accused me of wearing clear tights so other people wou...

My mother is destroying my relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - How do I stop my mother ruining my relationship? I am currently living at home with my mother and my boyfriend. The situation is probably not the best considering both me and my partner are in our early 30's but due to lack of money neither of...

Should I be mad because my bf and his ex are good friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I´ve got this problem almost year and a half, since I´ve been dating my bf. The problem is, he´s stayed a very good friends with his ex. They chat on internet very often, she called him when her boyfriend after mine broke up with ...

Confusion over 'casual sex' guy versus strong feelings for my best friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - Hello, im not sure where my head is at... ive been having 'casual sex' with a friend, he really likes me and is very clear about it, hes lovely, and sweet but i don't want a boyfriend atm which he has a hard time adjusting to as i dont let him act...

My baby daddy calls me up for sex and money.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - My ex-husband/ baby daddy has been taking advantage of me. We started back talking hanging out, and sexing. he got hired at one of the big three. I gave him the hiring number, paid for his birth certificate and moneys for his lights and gas back and ...

My boyfriend can't climax. What can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is 47 years old. We both love being intimate together and we are very creative. Only problem is that I can't get him to cum. Please, how can i help him?...

His friends come before me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. I have had difficulties with a couple whom my boyfriend knew before me: I had a sexual remark made to me by the couples husband. I made this know to the wife of this man. She severed communications with me. ...

Dating 11 months and he hasn't said "I love you" yet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - Hi All, I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now in a semi long distance relationship, we generally meet up every other week, the longest apart as been a month so in total Ive probably seen him for 4 months in total but we contact one a...

I want to go into this lesbian bar but am unsure how to dress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - I am a 21 single lesbian that moved to this area in July and from long as I can remember I have felt more attracted around mature lesbians. I have only dated women since I was 18. My questions. I found a lesbian bar that I have only seen mature...

I've been too easy. Is it time to use the "hard to get" method?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. On Wednesday i got with a guy at a halloween party and (drunkenly) let him finger me. I don't usually act like this but i liked the guy and to be honest was a bit drunk. The next day he invited me to a party last night where we got ...

After only 4 months, he has doubts and we are distanced, any thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - I just feel like I need some opinions before I finally make a decision about this! I'll try not to make it too much of a novel... I've been dating this guy for over 4 months. The past month and a half things have just changed. He only spends abou...

I have never had a girlfriend before, do I have a chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - I am 20 years old, never kissed anyone and never had a girlfriend. I really like this girl a lot. And she is always really sweet to me. There are 2 problems: 1. She is constantly busy, so theres no time to get together, and 2. I always find some way ...

I'd like my gay friends as bridesmaids but my boyfriend is against gays

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, almost two years. We've had our fights, but never anything bad, we always make up, we know we love each other very much and would never intentionally try to hurt each other. He wants to get married after ...

She used to be promiscuous so I want access to her online activities!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - Is it okay for me to ask my fiancee to look at her emails, texts, and facebook one time? I will gladly let her look at mine. I am engaged to woman w/ a very promiscuous past and want to confirm that she will be faithful by asking to read h...

Is my boyfriend being lazy or am I just being insensitive?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is 22 years old and still lives at home. He's the founder of a clothing company in which is continuing to grow although it has only been established for a few years. He makes enough money to continuously buy new clothes, sneakers, and ...

Alone we are fine, with her girlfriends, not so fine .....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - Hello I'm our average not so good-looking guy. Whenever I hang out with my girlfriend and her friends are around she ignores me. We have been going out for about a year and two months. I am crazy about her and I just don't know what to do. What do I ...

My girlfriend only responds to prosaic, never romantic, texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - whenever i write a message to my girlfriend which has love words like ,i dreamed with u ,i miss ur kiss, she does not reply but if i send other messages ,she replies ,does she hate such messages?...

I want to tell her I need more sex without seeming needy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't seem to be into sex anymore and says we have been dating long enough that we don't need to do it very often anymore. How can I get her to be into it and want to do without having to ask and sound super needy about it?...

Why did this girl give me the cold shoulder on the day after our perfect date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - A girl added me on Facebook about 1 and a half week ago. I live about 1 hour away from the capital (with plans to move there soon) so we kept touch via Facebook for that 1 and a half week. We really clicked, on Facebook at least, so naturally, I ...

Am I justified in feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4404 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - I am engaged to woman w/ a very promiscuous past and want to confirm that she will be faithful by asking to read her facebook/text messages/emails for peace of mind. I will only do it once and ensure her that it will only be once. I also have a ...

I'm 24 and have never experienced sexual attraction in my life. Is there any treatment for this or anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - I'm 24 and have never experienced sexual attraction in my life. I don't even get any enjoyment from hugging or kissing. I'm sure I'm asexual but I don't want to be. It feels like I'm missing out on a huge chunk of life. Quite a few people my age ...

Did I break some sort of rule by texting this guy? I'm at a loss and I'm so sick of feeling like I did something wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - So, honestly I feel like this is a pretty common "problem" (not exactly a problem, but a serious self-esteem killer) between ALL women and I would like some advice. Long story short, I met a guy who was my totally type at a bar three weekends a...