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Dating: Help and advice

What Love Masks by Frank Kermit

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

2 November 2012 (M) - What Love Masks By Frank Kermit, Relationships A mentor of mine taught me that love is not blind; it is just that categories are rigid. When you meet someone, you put that person in a category (lover, friend, temptation, fling, does-no...

What do I do if he's went off me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - hmm? My boyfriend is very unaware of how I feel about him... he doesnt realise he is pretty much the only thing on my mind that I always want to be with him and if he does'nt text me or gives me a slightly bad impression that will litterally kill ...

Why is my girlfriend so guarded? Can it be because she's Scorpio?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - So my girlfriend and I have been together 3 years, us both being lesbians. She's a Scorpio and I'm a Cancer. My issue is she's a very guarded person. And when she's going through things she doesn't like to talk about it or even talk to me. Which al...

Has my boyfriend lost interest or is it the stress of his current custody battle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - I had been dating a man for only 2 months, so just a short time. We hit it off very well...he would call daily,(sometimes twice) email, text, showed lots of interest. He asked me to go on a few weekend getaways with him and some close friends in a ...

Why does my partner become less affectionate and attentive after intimacy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Hi I am in a relationship with a guy for 6 months. He loves me a lot and so do I. We plan to get married in few years. He usually texts me and calls me often to ask about my whereabouts as well as 'miss u lot' and 'luv u' text. It is like he cant ...

Moral high ground!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - I'm 22 years old, 23 in January and I have slept with 3 guys. The first one became my bf when I was 14 and we finally slept together at the age of 16 and a half then broke up when I was 17 and a half. The second guy became my bf just before I ...

I'm with someone I love but after a few days together I need time alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - I'm with someone I really love but after we've spent a couple of really intimate days together, I feel like I have to get away and spend time alone. He doesn't understand and wants to spend all the time with me. It ends up causing a lot of arguments ...

The man I'm dating wants to borrow 20,000.00. How do I tell him no nicely?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Hello, The man with whom I'm in love has been offered a contract worth $ 270 000. He is so thrilled about this new opportunity. However, to be able to execute the contract, he has to show proof that he has $50 000 in his bank account. He only hav...

He was taking pills for a STD a week before he met me. He never told me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Hey All, I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I recently found he had sex with a girl he was seeing, just a week before we met. He had told me it was a month and a half since he last had sex. But this isn't a big deal to me about having sex...

Should I mention on first date that I'm trying to quit smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (M) - Ok so here goes. I'm a 31 year old virgin. I've asked out a girl from work. She said she doesn't date smokers but would like to go out for a drink. We are going for a pint tomorrow and I'm starting to get anxious. Ive never dated so I'm worried ...

Would you find it offensive to be told you are his first black girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

2 November 2012 (?) - I am a black single female who is born and bred in a multi-cultural city. I date/pursue men who I am initially attracted to and this can be of any race different to my own. I have noticed that on more than a few occasions if I become close with a ...

Am I being too controlling with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Hi, so iv been with my boyfriend now for two years and i am starting to feel very jealous and controlling over him i don't like him going out with his friends recently he said he was going to a gig with a girl friend of his and that i wasnt allowed ...

My girlfriend accidentally found the engagement ring I bought her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (M) - I bought an engagement ring for my live-in girlfriend a few months back. In fact, I had it custom made. I hadn't found the right time to propose yet, so I hid it away in a silver box on the top shelf of the cabinet we keep wine glasses in. We use t...

Girls seem to like me as a friend. So why can't I convert any of my friends into a Genuine Girl friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (M) - I’ll be turning 27 soon and have never had any sort of romantic relationship with a woman. I just can’t seem to figure this out. From what I hear from friends and family I should have no problem attracting women. I’m told that I’m an attractiv...

What can I do to turn things around? My hot taller older cousin gets the girls. I get zilch. I'ts making me jealous of him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (?) - I am intensely jealous of my older cousin. He is very tall about 6'2 and is called handsome by so many girls who meet him. He has hooked up with many girls. I am only 5'8 and i am not anything special. We both have steady futures so I cant use that...

Is there potential for a relationship between this 27 year old Veteran and me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Do you think a 27 year old guy would ever take a 19 year old seriously? He works, goes to school, has his own place and is a veteran. On the other hand I am still in school and I have a child (9 months) I really don't have much to offer a gro...

Is it the way I act that is making my Bf lose interest? For instance he didn't bother to give me a Birthday present this year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - I am unsure on how to act around my bf or how he feels. He seems to lack interest in me. I do not know if I am doing something wrong, or if he just does not love me anymore??? He claims he loves me and we have been serious for 3 yeara, we ...

Do you think I should ask this guy out? He's older to me and a co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Hi so I was just wondering what I should do. I am 20 and I am head over heels for a guy that I have known for about 8 months. We met when I started working for the same company as him- he is a coworker not my boss- and I have developed feelings for ...

Should I just take some time out to be single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Since I was 16 the longest I've been single is about a week. I have had an 8 year relationship and I've just come out of a 7 month relationship. Within a couple of days I was on a date with somebody else. My ex wasn't at all nice to me, really ...

Is it possible to become this depressed in a matter of four days?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - For the past two months, I've had my eye on this guy who goes to my school. Let's call him "C". C is two years younger than me. We've started dating a little over a week ago. I've convinced myself that I really like him, but now I'm not so sure. ...