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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex-husband/ baby daddy has been taking advantage of me. We started back talking hanging out, and sexing. he got hired at one of the big three. I gave him the hiring number, paid for his birth certificate and moneys for his lights and gas back and forth. he did pay me back. I also let him use one of my extra phones so he can at least have communication. He asked me whats up with us dating, then act like he didnt remember asking.He calls me for sex and money. When i went to get my money he borrow, he told me that he was expecting company his x-girlfriend. who he was dating during us working out are marriage. I then got pissed and collected my money and phone. If thats who you want and need do't be calling me. My friends for out of town said they saw him months ago and he was throwing my name in the mud, also said he was using me and that we are finish. I am completely done with him. if its not about my child we through. So I believe my friends even though i been with this man for ten years. plus he said he been knew this girl way before me and during. My thing is whats your opinion of the situation
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): original writer. I am aware of the situation and i called myself being tired. It's not like he doing anything for me, or our child. Child support is order 416.00 a month i get it sometimes. He change jobs four times due to layoffs or what not. Im not due to modification until 2015. So he claim he gave his employment his child support order. I haven't receive anything. So I called and reported it cause FOC had no record. I am done, so done. I wrote just to share the story.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 November 2012):
 my opinion is you are his doormat.
he is NOT taking advantage of you... YOU are giving him things... WHY?
the word you need for this man is NO
you gave him money
you gave him a phone
basically have a good court order for child support and visitation if he wants it... get the money sent to you for your child through the courts so you do not need to have contact with this user.
and get on with life.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 November 2012):
 "Sounds" to me like he knows how to take advantage of YOU.... and you are powerless to resist him....
Good luck..... (you'll need it!!!!).....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2012): "My thing is whats your opinion of the situation"
Ex can only take advantage of you because you let him, which is why he's taking advantage of you.
Say "NO," if he threatens to withhold child support in retaliation, then take him to court.
Stop being a doormat and start being a good example and strong role model for your child, otherwise with two loser parents he/she will assume what he/she witnesses is "normal" behavior and that's what he/she will emulate as an adult.
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