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Archived questions from: 13 August, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Preferably guys' opinions- Friendship between guys and girls, What do you think?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I know a lot of experts on dearcupid.org think men normally don't befriend girls unless they want something more from the girls - either sex or romance. So what do you guys think about this?Do you agree that a lot of the time, guys and girls b...

He left me because I think he is scared of ruining our friendship, He would rather keep me as a friend, What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I feel like my life is ending. I've loved one of my friends for a very long time. We finally got together but he ended it as he found someone else he liked and also he said he thought it'd gone too far and anymore we could reck our friendship. To be ...

Can someone just decide in a few hours if they want to be your boyfriend/girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - okay, so I'm a bit confused... Groing up and in college it was my understanding that guys are to wait a few dates and even a few months to ask a girl to be his girlfriend but 1) my ex boyfriend waited 2 days to ask me to be his girlfriend and ...

My ex is torn/confused between me and someone else. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My ex of 3yrs has recently came into the picture after being broken up for 7 months. It started with her texting me on my bday. I kept it short and sweet and said Thank You and that was it. I just started dating someone (nothing serious) around t...

I'm going away to school and I am worried about leaving my boyfriend behind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I'll be 8hrs away from him and I'm scared that the long distance will break us up. I know how tough it can be from talking with other people about it and I don't want the distance to be the reason a great relationship ends. I've never had someone ...

I'm so confused. I want to love her, But she says she is a lesbian now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4486 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - I have this best friend i met for 3 years and have a crush for 2. We are very open with each other and are constantly each other's emotional back up. When she breaks up with another boyfriend, i'm there, when she finds out a guy she loved was ...

I want validation that he is not cheating on me! If I asked to see his phone would that be wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other since May, but lately I've had this gut feeling he is hiding stuff from me. He's been acting a little shady in my eyes. Yesterday I asked him if he was talking to any other females. I excepted a no, ...

Am I being to insecure? Do you think he is thinking of me as more like a FWB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Am I just being insecure? Been seeing a guy for a few weeks. At first I could tell he was really interested. I have known him for years as an aquaintence, through friends and always thought he is a really nice guy. I didn't know he liked me this way ...

Can seeing someone too often break the relationship? Is this too often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I have a question, Its always been something I've wondered myself in the past and also when looking and the whole concept of a relationship in general. However recently I feel im loosing my best friend whos a male because he now has a girlfriend as ...

She has a DR. Jekyll/ Ms. Hyde personality, Am I crazy for sticking around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. I love her more than anything. (I know it's a lot, but i'm really trying to get this right. I potentially want to marry this woman.) I'm trying to find ways to keep the spark between u...

Is it possible to be in love this young? Or am I just falling hard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I'm young, 15 to be exact, but there's this guy who is always on my mind. I've had feelings for him for maybe 4 months now, and I've never felt this way about anyone. He's cute, sweet, caring, so involved in his religion, though i'm not very ...

Does he have an interest in me and should I just wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - sorry to bather you with my question. I will be happy if you will find time to answer me. i think about everything too much and now i try to do everything right but im bit lost. I met a guy, great in the beginning (4 weeks ago), we had ...

Confusion whether it's an invite for a second date or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - Hello i went on a date with a woman, she sent e,mail, i think date went ok . she sent, e,mail next day said , lovley day , lovley gent. next day i sent an e,mail saying i wanted to give her a kiss on the date , but i did not want too risk it on ...

Never needed it before. What would be the reasons why, after all this time, I have now started to need lube to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm a 33 year old woman with a healthy sexual appetite and a boyfriend that I've been dating for a year. With my previous sexual partners I never had to use lube, I was always wet enough to have sex although I've never been so wet that...

Are guys immediate about pursuing a girl or do they go away to think it through before they make their first move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (?) - I am a very conscientious person and as a result I tend to over analyse and think my way out of things. when it comes to getting to know a guy I tend to hold back at first and observe his behaviour and actions rather than (like many women) pounce a...

Three months and he treats me well. But do you think his relationship with his ex could be a stumbling block?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. He's good to me, treats me well. I just have some concerns about his relationship with his ex. He works for her, plays sports with her, they have children together, and he's at her place a lot....

What can we both do to help encourage my libido to return? I feel like a horrible Gf to my Bf

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I have completely lost interest in sex. We've tried different things to get my interest back but it hasn't worked and I feel like a horrible girlfriend. I still love my boyfriend it's not ...

Love, lust, and infatuation. can you really define or tell the difference between each one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Lots of people can not tell the difference between infatuation and love. The key difference is that infatuation (otherwise known as a "crush") only lasts for FOUR months. Only four. Then your feelings like do die out and you're free to look at ...

We've been together four years. Will I lose him after he joins the Air Force?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - dear readers.. i am in a crisis... i have been with a boyfriend for 4 years now, we have been through so much together.. ie cheating, separation etc but we have always come out on top.. now i am 18 and he is too, but in the year above me.. he i...

Why would he do this? Do I try to get him back? My Bf broke up with me as he failed a grade.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a few months and we really love each other. The only problem is that he failed a grade and I get to go to the next grade. This is out conversation Him- "I think we need to break up. Well honestly, I failed math an...

The Ex looms large in our relationship. What can do to keep him in my life without pressuring him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I met this guy and he is amazing. We have gone on three dates and quite frankly I feel very comfortable with him. But we have one MAJOR problem. His ex gf. They dated for 5 years and broke up a month ago(he broke up with her but she's not ov...

Is it normal for a Gf to say sexy things in her sleep? Every night!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - My girlfriend makes sex noises in her sleep, it used to be every now and then, now its a nightly thing that wakes me up. Her history is quite promiscuious which probably adds to the paranoia, but we do keep a regular sex life. I know people can'...

Recently broke up with Bf. Who says he still loves me. Now his friend is interested in me. Is it too soon to go with the other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, but he says he's still in love with me. And one of his close friends, let's call him X , recently was left by his girlfriend, but still has some feelings for her. So this brings me to my problem: I've be...

I'm five months pregnant but he made me walk 8 miles plus home. I love him but he stresses me. Should I give him up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. I am 17 years old and I'm pregnant. I am 5 months pregnant and the boy who got me pregnant was my boyfriend of a year. He has now decided to choose alcohol and drugs over me and my little girl. I'm not really sure as to what I s...

Her boy friend is abusive. But she says I am trying to break them up if I talk about it. What can I do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Dear cupid About six months ago I was at a small party with my friend and her boyfriend. my friend and her boyfriend were having some issues. They had been constantly bickering throughout the night. They then went outside to sort things out alone, a...

Can you please help me get him back and what indications would I see if he is coming back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - dear all .... it was in 2009 my friend hooked me and this guy up from a site because i told her i wanted a boyfriend so then me and the guy dated and when i was 14 i didnt hear from him no more and me and the girl the one hooked me up with him we ...

Why is my partner even considering her ex? Why did her ex show up now after four years of being away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - I need help any body please. my problem is im with a great person who has helped me get through alot and i helped her through alot in the last 7 months. we have been dating since march and out of the blue her ex husband calls her asking for f...

My old flame. We got back together. When he went back to his wife. When is enough enough? Is he lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I'm not sure where to begin. I apologize now if I'm all over the place, but I'm going to try.. I met this guy when we were 15, so we have a bit of history. The jist; Instant love, we were inseparable, I got pregnant, our parents forbid us to see e...

My relationship has hit rock bottom and to top it all off, I missed my period this month

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - Last October, my bf and I broke up after 7 years together. It was the most difficult time in my life. A few months later, we started talking again and he begged me to get back together with him. He said he would change. I foolishly took him back and ...