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writes:I went out for a night of fun with some of my girl friends and met a guy at the bar. He seemed really nice and genuine..he knew some of my friends that I was with that night so we met through them. That evening him and I talked a lot and flirted a little. He stuck with me the whole evening and we had a nice time! At the end of the night, he saw that I got home safely but no numbers were exchanged. I figured it was just a fun night and went on. A week later I went to the same bar with my friends and saw him again. This time he was more flirty and we talked throughout the night a lot and this time, more one on one. When the night ended he made sure I got home safe, again, and talked to me outside my door for 15 minutes or so. We held hands for a little bit that evening and right before we parted ways he finally asked for my number. Not even 10 minutes after we said bye for the night, he texted something nice/made sure I made it in safely. The next day (saturday) he texted me pretty late into the evening to see if I would be attending an event at one of the bars that night. I had other plans so told him that. I heard from a few of our mutual friends at the event that evening that he was asking where I was. I've seen him a few times randomly around campus and he's hugged me each time and we made small talk. Other than that though, he doesn't text me to just talk or to ask me out to do dinner or anything like that. Was the holding hands at the bar and flirting just because we were having a good night (we were both a little buzzed--definitely not drunk) or does it sound like he's a little interested in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): He sounds very well interested in you,
It would be a good idea to ask your friends about him too as they would tell you if he's generally a flirt or if he actually likes you.
He may have been worried to ask for your number the first day because he may have the same thoughts.
I suggest you should talk to your friends about him & if they say that he isn't a flirt or doesn't sleep around then maybe tell him you're interested?
I hope this helped with your problem.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (12 September 2011):
 Yes, I don't think a guy holds hand if they aren't interested, or.. ask for the phone number.
Maybe YOU could ask HIM out? make it coffee/tea something simple and see how he reacts? Could be he isn't sure how you feel as well.
Good luck.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (12 September 2011):
 Hi,
Sounds like he's interested in you definitely, but I think he's just shy, or taking his time. I am sure he didn't ask you out yet, cause he's insecure about your feelings towards him, and he's probably afraid of being rejected. Just like you are wondering, does he have feelings for me? Is he interested? Did holding hands meant anything? He probably feels the same way you do. So far, sounds like he's doing everything right, sounds like he's a good guy, caring, respecful, sweet, and sounds like you both get along well.
Just enjoy, be yourself, and lets things happen naturally. Don't worry too much, I am sure he will ask you out.
Good luck
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