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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I still have feeling for my ex,and he just proposed to me. But right now I'm in another relationship,though i don't trust my present bf that much,but i also love him. Am so confused right now
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 September 2011):
if you can't choose between two men you aren't ready to make a choice...
and in my opinion TRUST is the most critical part of a relationship... if you can't TRUST someone how do you make a life with them always worrying about the lies, or the cheating or if they are going to hit you etc...
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (12 September 2011):
Right so many issues here and such a short question. Your ex proposed to you? Well, why is he an ex? Without telling us that it's hard to judge. Secondly, why don't you trust your current bf? I have to say you obviously still have some residual feelings for your ex as much as you not trusting your current bf, so without knowing why I actually feel a wee bit sorry for your bf (with the caveat you could well be right not to trust him) since its his feelings look most likely to be hurt.
It looks to me like your current bf is something of a rebound and you haven't fully resolved your feelings for your ex and that is part of what is causing the problems here. However, before we go further with this we really need more detail before we can tell you which way to go concretely. Please do get back to us with more :), take care x
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