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Should I follow up with this guy, or not?

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Question - (12 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ancerGirl09 writes:

So everyone, I used to be part of this online dating site. I was never active on it so therefore my profile was on "hiatus" meaning I couldn't really request, message, or talk to people. I could only just add them to my "favorites". I talked to this guy on there briefly once. It was nothing major probably spoke for a week, then I met my boyfriend and havent spoken to that guy since, not that it really matters.This was about 4 years ago. Recently while searching my friends name up on facebook, This guy THE VERY SAME GUY I spoke to briefly on the dating site pops up!

His name was rather similar to my friends name so I guess he also popped up because we had a few mutual friends on facebook if you know what I mean.

I requested him, he accepted and said hey whats up. I mentioned to him that we spoke a while ago on the dating site and he said possibly it was a while ago and then he told me to send him more pictures. I did and send him alot. He then turns around and said you dont look alike in the first and second pic but the rest you do. It was all me in the pic and its just so funny how that would be his first reaction.

We havent spoken since but I would really love to talk to him so bad. Im not trying to be desperate but we have a lot in common from religion, to nationality and that is just an even more positive from my perspective.

I messaged him a day ago and said "you still havent gotten back to me :(" just to see what he would say and he hasn't.

What should I do?

Should I like some of his pictures on facebook so he sees im intrigued?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011):

No yu should leave him he probly does'nt feel the same way as yu do no point in looking desperate and geting hurt

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