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writes: hes 32 me 22 we both kno we both like each another cuz we hav told 1 another but neither 1 of us hav cleared the air weather or not were bf/gf but the last time we chilled he asked me if i would go out wit him sumtime and i said yea well 3 days ago we were txtin bout sumtin and i said if u dnt want me u cn tell me cuz i aint goin 2 get mad and he said i dnt kno what i want so i just left it at that then the nxt day i txted him sayin im sry if i said anything that may hav crossed the line and that i dnt want 2 push him away he txted back sayin im cool wit what were doin and that im not pushin him away and that he wants 2 get 2gather wit me and then he said what i said bout not knowin what i wanted wasnt meant bout me and you what does he mean by that? And whats happening between us cuz i dnt kno if were datin or y he hasnt asked me 2b his gf yet. What do u guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (20 December 2007):
Hey,
First off I have to point out that using text messaging is a VERY insufficent way to talk to someone, especially about such important issues! Why would you do this? People can lie so easily through text messages so the answer you got may not even be that true...but you wont know because you cant read his body language or anything like that.
So having said that, Ithink next time you see him you need to bring the topic up of what you and him are. This face, by speaking face to face you will be able to have a PROPER conversation and without the risk of miscommunication. Just say that you are confused about where you stand with him, and ask him what he wants...and then you tell him what yo uwant. If you both have different wants then this may not work out.
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 It could be he is just afraid of commitment and hopefully that is what it is. But i have a question did he just recently leave some one else or does he still have feelings for someone else you think because i went throught a situation where a girl wanted to date me but also didnt want to lose her chances with her worthless user ex who is now her current boyfriend again. So she used exactly what your bf is saying as an excuse. So be wary but dont get all defensive and accuse him of being undecisive.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (20 December 2007):
 I think he has a fear of committment. I think he likes you but he is holding back a bit. Just don't rush things, give it time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): Is that all one sentence? Sorry I got half way through and couldn't follow it. Punctuation makes things so much easier to read. It would be easier for everyone if you could use full stops and capital letters at the start of a new sentance. I know it's a pain. Thanks.
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