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41-50,
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writes:Lately a coworker and I have been wanting to become more intimate. We met at work and have become friends and have done some fun things together. He and I will be going to a work conference. I think that this would be the time to go to bed together. What advice do you have? If we become physically intimate at the conference would it be a one time things or could we continue when we return home from the conference? Would could be some of the benefits to becoming more intimate at the conference and after we return?
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reader, bemused  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 I am assuming you are both single and unattached.
The operative word here is coworker. In my opinion it can complicate things if you get involved with a coworker. If the relationship gets physical at the conference you run the risk that others will find out and you could be fodder for the water cooler set. I am getting the feeling you are feeling a strong physical attraction and want to act on it. You need to be honest about what you want here. The worst case scenerio might be that people do find out and the experience might be hurtful or disappointing both of which could leave you vulnerable if you like this guy. I would suggest that if you are going to sleep together soon it should not be at the conference. You are both unattached so you could still slip away for a weekend and it keeps your private life separate from your public life. Good luck.
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