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writes: Hi, I’m 18 and a year ago I met this boy (who is also 18) who just appeared to come into my life at first I didn't know him but then gradually we started talking and became friends then he turned out to be my male best friend cause he just understood everything then I gained feelings for him (he is my 1st love) and well their growing a lot. He takes me out a lot (and I’m nearly always with him) and every time he takes me out lately he has been calling it a date, anyways well after so many times going out and stuff something happened between us both.Well what happened was his sister told me to come to their house because sheNeeded help with something (as I know his sister well) I went round to his house and asked if she was here and she told me to sit. She said she was running late and went out the door so I was about to leave but she told me to stay and that she will be back very quick so I waited around and, my best male friend was their as well, who I fancy and well while I was waiting he kept me company but it seemed like his sister wasn’t going to come back so I was heading off but then I remembered he hadn't eat so I made him some food and then after that I was about to leave but he told me to stay, I said to him only for 5 minutes he agreed then we was just talking and he asked me whether I had a boyfriend I said NO! then he was asking all these questions and I answered them and then finally I just said like what’s with all these questions and enough with them all and he comes closer and closer and we were about to kiss but his sister walks in (we never kissed). Well basically I went off, cause this happened on Wednesday 19th December I haven’t spoken to him yet, but his sister did ring me but I had my phone on silent, then he phoned me but I never picked up cause I was too busy with work stuff and then when was about to pick it up it the phone call ended. Well I have been talking to my friends about it and they suggest he likes me and his sister found out already and thought to help us so then we have a proper chance of talking things through and for something to happen. Also my best female friend suggests he likes me because she figured out that he has feelings for me and then he confessed to her about liking me Ok my question is after what happened does that mean he likes me because I’m confused cause I am posting this email on the day this all happened I haven’t seen him or his sister yet so I haven’t had a chance to sort things out.. Well I want to ask every ones opinion is after what I said above and what happened between me and him what does it mean does he like me?I am asking because then if he does I would actually prefer to tell him quickly (ASAP) before things get even more awkward and weird between us. Please reply. I wouldn't mind even if a comment on something else or advice on something else and not the question as long as I have a reply from some one about what they think, that will be great enough for me. Thank you to who ever read this and replies back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): Sounds to me like he likes you alot, SOME guys can sometimes tend to bombard you with questions when they are interested. I think maybe this guy wanted his sister to set it up so you two could be left alone, as it seems odd that she took a while to come back. You seem interested in this guy as you two were about to kiss. I don't know, but I get the sense that you seem a bit scared that you two could become more than friends. Maybe it could that the whole relationship thing is a bit much right now as you knew him as a friend first - i'm not sure. I say talk to him and I find out how you both feel. If you want it to be more than friendship, just take things slowly - you are already friends anyway and you have grown to have feeling for him, so i don't see why not! Hope it all works out for you!
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