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Archived questions from: March, 2018 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I started an affair as a FWB but we are so well matched!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

31 March 2018 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for 6 years now he is much older than me and I have just recently caught the eye of a wonderful man that is my age that has a good head on his shoulders and is very charming and respectful the only bad part is we are ...

Why won’t he respond to me and give me back my things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

31 March 2018 (F) - I have been involved with a guy from work for over a year now he was originally an affair from which I left a violent relationship. Things were going well although there has been a lot if issues a long the way financial and emotiobal more m...

What is he hiding??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

30 March 2018 (F) - I have been with my partner for 17 and a half years now. Just recently he has become secretive. He deletes things off of his cell phone, and goes to a different room when he talk's. Could he be cheating or hiding something?...

I love another boy but don’t know how to break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2456 days ago

30 March 2018 (F) - Well, l am kind of in a weird situation, there was a boy who l had a crush on, but l thought he wasn't in to me. We grew up together and we did things we shouldn't have (anything other then sex*) but l thought we were just messing around, and he r...

Do gay guys like men who are on the down low?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

29 March 2018 (M) - Do gay guys, have fwb,with guys who, have girlfriends, do they like having guys like that. Cause am thinking about asking a gay guy I know, if he would like taking my virginity, I have fantasies, about having sex with him, all the time, when I do ...

I think she has betrayed my loyalty and trust!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

29 March 2018 (M) - I have a partner of 4+ years. We are 1,200 miles apart. I plan to join her in 6 months. She has vociferously prioritized loyalty and trustworthiness. I have been 100% loyal since we parted 5 months ago. Well, she went out with some girlfriends ...

Am I right to not trust him? Can a marriage survive on no trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - I've been married for 12 years, have 2 beauitful children. Recently found out that a woman my husband works with has a crush on him. They've worked together for 18 months but I was led to believe that they just worked for the same company, in...

Anyone have friends or family who knew of your partners affair and DIDN'T tell you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

28 March 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2008 till now we still ...

Our affair ended but now I have to see her every day at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - I had friendship with same gender best friend that turned into more, we had a 2 month physical affair. She has ended the affair and is staying with her husband and teenager but we work together. How do I get over her and handle seeing her everyday ...

Boyfriend has a bruise on his neck. Is he cheating? I'm afraid to ask

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

27 March 2018 (F) - I saw a strange bruise on my boyfriend's neck yesterday. He always accuses me of cheating but I've been very faithful. We've been together for over a year and it has been really hard. I made the mistake of lying to him about going to a party about 6 ...

Should I keep trying to work things out after my girlfriend cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

26 March 2018 (M) - Kate and I started seeing each other two years ago, February 2016. We liked each other a lot... we had unprotected sex on the first date and saw each other 2-3 times a week for about four months. Usually we would visit a museum or show, wander about ...

Am I wrong to not be friends with my ex because he’s re-established contact with the woman he was hitting on behind my back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

26 March 2018 (F) - My ex and I broke up about two months ago because he's moving away. Now, in the beginning of us dating and getting to know each other we had an issue with him talking to and hitting on this one girl behind my back. I ended it with him when I found ...

I feel a lightning bolt of attraction but he's 30 years older and married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

26 March 2018 (F) - I’ve met a coworker who I have intense physical chemistry with, and I mean we both just vibrate around each other. His hands shake and I feel electricity all through my body just walking past him or making small talk. He feels we must be some sort ...

My boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test because his brother says him and I had sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now whom I love dearly. I’m 28 and he’s a year older. We live together. So my boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test because his pathological liar of a younger brother said that we slept togethe...

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

My husband had an affair and now I can't sleep with him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: two questions combined into one Hi everyone. I've been married for nearly 6 years. We have a three year old son. Last year my husband and I had some issues where I focussed too much on one my hobbies and spent less time with him. He t...

My love life is just a big mess.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

21 March 2018 (M) - My girlfriend and I were dating for just over a year and we were so happy together, but the last few months of us dating were just filled with arguments. Those arguments were mainly about her parents as they are extremely controlling and they were ...

My boyfriend is telling another girl she should marry him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2469 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi my boyfriend is deployed for 7 months in Latvia. I felt like he seems distant. I opened his Facebook I saw that he’s messaging one girl, he was telling the girl that he will send a letter to her and by the time that girl is 30 she should marry ...

How would a cheater act if he were cheating on you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi please can people give me some idea of how someone would act around you if they were cheating on you I have been with my fiancé now for 6 years we have a 3 year old daughter we’ve been having sleep issues with our 3 year old daughter so my ...

Do you consider girl on girl action cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2469 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship for almost 3 years now. My boyfriend is out of the country most of the time. We are apart for months. I love him and I have never had sex wit another man nor have I ever kissed someone else. I haven't even flirted with another ...

Older man is now divorced and has guessed my child is also his!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - Can the Aunts and Uncles help me please I meet a older man 6 years ago who told me he was separated but was actually still married. When I found this out I ended it and was heartbroken. He had had a older daughter my age from a separate ...

I feel I have met the right person at the wrong time ... and he is lying to his girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I’ve known of this guy for about a year but I never knew his name I just knew him as we had mutual friends. I will add at this point that I had (and still have) a massive crush on him. I saw him whilst I was out clubbing at the start of this year ...

She has cut me completely after our families learnt of our same sex affair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - Hello I fell in love with my same gender best friend of 4 years, we are both married to our husbands with children, had an emotional affair that turned physical for 2 months. We ended the affair but still work in the same building. She has cut me ...

Should I be worried about what I saw on his phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and even have a baby together. I have really bad trust issues with him since I caught him lying about looking at porn and one night hook ups. Recently I looked on his phone and seen that he ...

We didn't trust each other so I ended it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

15 March 2018 (M) - I recently entered into a casual relationship with someone that I met through a swingers site, we used to meet for nsa fun but we clicked and we decided to make it more permanent but I told her that I had a bad experience a few years ago and it ...

He has broken my trust and lied to me so many times and I love him to bits!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - My partner and i have been together for 2 years in April i am pregnant with his child but he constantly checks out other women i have looked on his phone history and he has been on porn sites i confronted him about it he swears blind he didn't do ...

My husband’s friend is trouble!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - Please advise what to do if your husband always likes to hang out with a friend that is trouble. My husband has a friend who is married but likes to go drinking and partying with single women. They dance and touch.. not sure if they have sex. His...

I had to test his loyalty but now he won’t talk to me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - okay, so today i had the idea of making a fake snapchat account and adding and texting my boyfriend as another girl while simultaneously texting as the real me on my real snapchat...(i had two devices). he added the fake one and and asked who is it ...

Did my wife believe me about the dinner receipt?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

14 March 2018 (M) - Hi. I am a married man having an affair. My wife went out of town to her mother's for two weeks and I spent that time with my mistress. Last night my wife found a receipt of dinner for 2 when my mistress and I went to a restaurant the day her flig...

I feel like a dirty secret

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - I have been involved with a guy who was originally an affair who i left an an abusive relationship for. It hasnt been easy to say the least as we also work together. He stays at mine all the time and is with me every night, however, I just ...

I'm not sure if this should be ringing alarm bells.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

12 March 2018 (M) - Hi everyone This isn't a serious issue, i'd just like some of your thoughts. My girlfriend asked me if she thinks it is true that if someone cheats once they will cheat again. I said I think it depends on the person. I didn't know why she wo...

Breaking up and getting back together after you have been with someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

9 March 2018 (F) - Hello aunts I wanted to come in here and get peoples opinions on breakups and makeups. I was in a long term relationship and once we broke up - I couldn’t go back to what it was (there was a reason we broke up) I see couples getting married ...

He's acting as if I don't exist.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

9 March 2018 (F) - Should I try to make this work? Me and my boyfriend took a little break from each other because of him constantly keeping in touch with his ex that he got out of a relationship with because of me a few months ago. We worked it out and things were ...

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Is this old saying true?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

9 March 2018 (F) - Is it true what they say, that once a cheater, always a cheater? I mean if a wife forgave his husband for having cheated on her for a year and a half, are there chances that after 2 years he will cheat again? What are your thoughts or experiences on ...

How do you heal a wound so deep in your heart? How do you stop being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

9 March 2018 (F) - How do you forget something so hurtful as seeing your partner make love for hours to a much younger woman in her teens and that moment when you see it you have just given birth and you are not as fresh and new as her teen body and your boobs have ...

What is the best way to end my obsession with my co-worker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

8 March 2018 (F) - Hello, I am a happily a married woman with a 4yr old daughter and an awesome husband. With that said I want nothing more than to have crazy (50 shades of grey) sex with my coworker who is also married with 3 kids and one on the way. It started ...

Is something wrong with me that I’m aroused by evidence of my wife’s cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

8 March 2018 (M) - I found out that my wife reconnected with a former boyfriend after 28 years via email. They were exchanging email and vivid sexual chats. When I confronted her, she said that it was just imagination and nothing. Although she apologised, she refuses ...

He pursued me and now I’m in love with him, but he has a girlfriend. Do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

5 March 2018 (F) - Please don’t judge me too much for writing this.. but I’d really appreciate some advice. This guy works in a different department in my office.. we knew each other vaguely for 2 years and and he started messaging me randomly around 6 months ...

Why is my husband still here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

3 March 2018 (F) - In 2016 my husband had affair whole that year I also fell pregnant with our third child during the mid of his affair. He ended it with mistress because he said he wants life with me and kids. Its now 2018 and its just hard for me now to understa...

I think I’m falling for someone who has a woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

2 March 2018 (F) - I think im falling for someone who has a woman.... We met at my job about 4 months go, when his lady was on her way to jail.. She has to sit out a year and a half in there, ans though they're still "together" hes still spending all hos time with me ...