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writes:I think im falling for someone who has a woman.... We met at my job about 4 months go, when his lady was on her way to jail.. She has to sit out a year and a half in there, ans though they're still "together" hes still spending all hos time with me which i know is wrong.. I also have a man, but he often flakes on me and I know hes cheating, so i step out and do my own thing with my friend.. The problem is we're becoming too close.. What so i say to my friend.. that we need to slow down and take it down a notch? Or do i just do my thing until something better comes along? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 March 2018):
 First off if your boyfriend is so useless and he is cheating why on earth are you still with him? Two wrongs do not make a right, and it does not justify you cheating on him! Honestly if you are in a unhappy relationship then end it. If you like this friend of yours then talk to him and tell him but WAIT until you are single. Don't get with him while he is still with this other woman because more likely than not he is just passing the time until she comes out. If he is serious about you then ask him to finish with her.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (2 March 2018):
 You know he's cheating, so don't stay with him. It's that simple. No point staying with him and just doing your own thing, possibly even starting an affair yourself.So you're not even interested in this guy? You just want him until something better comes along? Seriously, OP - stop playing with people!Ditch the cheating boyfriend. Stop spending alone time with this taken guy. BE SINGLE.You don't need to say anything to him, just stop spending time alone with him.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (2 March 2018):
 Cheating can never be justified - even if your boyfriend is doing it. You have gone from one cheater to another (he hasn't yet but you know he probably will). If he is cheating WITH you, he will cheat ON you.
Dump the boyfriend. You don't sound like you give two hoots for that relationship so why stay in it? However, the fella whose partner is in jail needs to make a choice - her or you. If he still wants to be with her, then you need to walk away as he will cheat on you too.
You are worth better. Don't sell yourself so cheap.
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