New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in April, 2005, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

2 (1), 3 (3), 4 (2), 6 (3), 14 (2), 17 (1), 18 (1), 19 (2), 20 (4), 21 (1),
23 (4), 27 (2), 30 (1),

Archived questions from: April, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I want to get back together with him, but I'm worried about this other girl and him alone together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I left my son's father in January b/c we were having problems and I thought we needed some time apart. Then it came out where he slept with some other girls. Now we want to get back together. I came over this week so we could talk snd try to ...

He travels a lot and could be getting up to no good. I'm having trouble trusting him, too...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend eighteen months. He is a business man and tends to travel a lot. Just recently he got a new phone and he gave me his old one which had messages on, which had proven he had cheated on me while he was away. I confront...

My fiance says there's nothing going on with his business partner, but evidence shows something else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7136 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I need help!! I am very insecure about myself. I have been with my fiance for nearly 3 years and am getting married next year. He has just set up two new companies and the last one he has done with two others. The woman who is a partner in the b...

I think I'm in love with my best friend's girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend. I have only known her for 2 months but I feel very close to her and can tell her anything. What should I do?...

Too drunk to remember why, but I woke up next to a pretty redhead. Should I confess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7141 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - A couple of nights ago, me and my girlfriend were having a real big fight, and she suggested a 'break-esque' thing, some time apart, and I thought she meant we were breaking up, so I went to a bar and got really drunk... and all I remember is waking ...

I'm cheating on my husband, now I've started cheating on my lover. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I have been married for 15 years and I have been having an affair for the past 7 yrs. Now I started having a fling with another guy. Why do I do these things? I have a wonderful husband but still seek these flings. Why? I am always attracte...

Our engagement announcement was postponed when I discovered her cheating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7143 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - I'm 26 and have been with me Girlfriend for 8 years now. She once used to be my sisters best friend and as we got to know each other we found there was so much deeper stuff between us. Life’s been dandy (don’t get me wrong there have been some real ...

A text to my partner from another woman has taken the trust from our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7119 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - My partner & I haev been together for nearly 12 years. About 4 years ago he had an affair and this caused us to split up once I found out. About a year later we got back together and tried to put the past behind us & bring up our Son in a family ...

She tells me nothing happened, but she's still chatting and texting her guy on the Net.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7145 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I found out my lady met a man she chatted to on the net. She says nothing went on, but she texts & talks to him on the phone a lot. Although I love her dearly I don't want to be taken for a fool. What should I do? I am in turmoil....

How can I end a 20-year affair when I still care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7145 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I have been having an affair with a married man for 20 yrs. We have a 12yr old child. His wife is materialistic, I am emotional. She knows about me and child. How do I end something when there are still feelings?...

When does this mistrustful feeling towards my husband go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7126 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - After putting my problem online, I hoped I would start to feel better. My husband is really trying hard to make me feel better and to trust him again, but I feel so rubbish. I want to start to heal and I cannot seem to. He loves me and is gutted...

I had no idea he was married... now I wish I could hate him, but I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7147 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I`ve just found out that my boyfriend is married. His wife found his mobile with my name,number and messages. I`m gutted. I cant stop thinking about him and wonder if anything he told me is true. He told me he still loved me and I`m still in...

My partner exchanged 47 emails with someone, but claims "it's just a silly game" with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7147 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I've got three children and have just found out that my partner has been chatting to someone since last September. I accidentally came across them on Sunday. On Monday morning I got up early and found 47 e mails to and from each other. I read the...

We had a mad fling, now he seems terrified that I'm going to let on...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7148 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I'm single, and I've just finished having an affair with a married man, but we both live close to each other. When I see him on his own, I say "Hi how are you?" He says "I'm fine, how are you?" I say, "Fine thanks", and walk away. But if he's wit...

Want to stop being attracted to my older, married guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7138 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - Dear cupid, I have recently developed feelings for an older man. I am 21yrs old and he is 35. He is married with two young boys. We both get on so well and are very attracted to each other. We have kissed and held each other a lot but have don...

I guess I'm ready to settle down and marry my gf... but there's no spark, no thrill and very little sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I am due to marry my g/f in 2 months and in turmoil! I'm 34, shes 32. We have been living together for nearly 5 years pretty much as man and wife. We have joint ownership of our 2 houses(rent the second one out). Even from the beginning she was neve...

I'm so tempted to sleep with my married bloke... His wife would never know.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

14 April 2005 (?) - I have had a crush on a bloke at work for over 2 years. just recently we have been flirting and he has made it quite obvious that he would sleep with me. I'm really tempted. The only thing is that he's married with a newborn baby. I know that his ...

There were no clues at all that my guy was married and a cheater!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

14 April 2005 (?) - I have just found out the guy I`ve been going out with for 2 months is married with a baby. His wife found texts I had sent on his mobile. I had no idea he was married and even now can see no clues from his past behaviour. Our relationship was ...

Trying to get over my affair and back with my husband, but I feel devastated!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

6 April 2005 (?) - I'm married and have been having an affair for 6 months with an old school friend. We have decided to end things as we felt we were both getting too involved. Now I feel devastated and can't stop crying. Things between me and my husband aren't g...

My affair doesn't bother me in the slightest... but why am I doing it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

6 April 2005 (?) - I have a boyfriend of 3 years and a 1 yr old son. I met this man and we have been having an affair but I don't feel the slightest bit guilty. Does this mean that I don't love my partner any more or am I just bored?...

She was "off limits" as a married woman, but now she's leaving him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7156 days ago

6 April 2005 (?) - Ive been mulling this over in my head and telling myself its not a problem, but now I realise the fact that I keep thinking about it proves its something I need help with! I work as a chef in a hotel, working long hours and don't go out all that...

Our growing attraction might be too much to control, but we don't want to hurt our spouses...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7161 days ago

4 April 2005 (?) - I am married but have found someone else very attractive. He is also married, but we feel that working together is becoming almost impossible without our attraction to each other growing. Unfortunitly not working together is not an option either o...

He claims he doesn't sleep with his wife and loves me... Can that be true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7154 days ago

4 April 2005 (?) - A married man falls in love with a single woman. He is her first. Still lives with his wife overseas, yet he claims he loves the single woman. Is it possible for a 31 yr old man not to sleep with his wife? He says so, says he doesn't. But is it re...

Is it normal to think about the "what ifs" so close to the wedding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7162 days ago

3 April 2005 (?) - Hi, Please help me. I have cheated on my fiance with a friend. I don't have any excuses as to why I did it, I'm just a fool I guess. The 'other man' has really messed me up, on one hand telling me he loves me and that it should be him I marry a...

He cheats and keeps chatting with women online. I can't help but be jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7162 days ago

3 April 2005 (?) - I am married for more than 4 yrs now. I have 1 kid and I am pregnant right now. My husband has been addicted to chatting and texting women. I can't help but get jealous because he is always doing the same thing after having so many fights and ...

What signs will tell me if my girlfriend is cheating?

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

3 April 2005 (?) - Please help..I feel my g/friend maybe cheating..What are the signs to look for? - serious answers from ladies and girls most appreciated..Thank you.....

Should I tell his new partner he's cheating with me? Will I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7164 days ago

2 April 2005 (?) - Need advice: lived with partner for 19 years, found out he was cheating, split with him but tried to work things out. We still had sex anyway, this is now 3 years on, and up till Feb we were still having sex, although he has new partner that he ...