| A ,
anonymous
writes: Hi, Please help me.I have cheated on my fiance with a friend. I don't have any excuses as to why I did it, I'm just a fool I guess. The 'other man' has really messed me up, on one hand telling me he loves me and that it should be him I marry and then on the other hand obviously flirting with my friends to make me jealous - which seems to be working. I am quite young (early 20's) to be getting married and wonder if I see this 'other man' as the 'what if guy', what I could have if I were not to get married. I love my fiance very much and we have worked through the cheating problem - I just need to know if it is normal to have these irrational thoughts about someone else this close to the wedding.
View related questions:
fiance, flirt, jealous, wedding Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, hlyberry3 +, writes (4 April 2005):
Do you think that some guy who allowed you to cheat with him on your fiance, and a guy who is playing games with your head while you are in the process of getting married is really worth it? Marriage is something that two mature adults do, and this other sounds like he is immaturaly breaking something up. If this guy really wanted you, I think he would have a classier way of letting you know, and without causing more drama than you already have. Are you willing to throw your fiance and the life you could have away for some guy who is playing games?
|
