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writes: I need help!!I am very insecure about myself. I have been with my fiance for nearly 3 years and am getting married next year. He has just set up two new companies and the last one he has done with two others. The woman who is a partner in the business is very flirty and keeps calling my other half 'hun', 'sweety' and 'darling' and sending him text messages with kisses on. It makes me feel really bad and is starting to affect my relationship with my fiance as I have lost trust in him, as he keeps lying to me about when he gets back from business trips with herI have found reciepts to prove his whereabouts and parking tickets he has got when outside her house, but says that this other bloke lives in the same place but he doesn't. My fiance says he loves me and he buys me lovely things and swears there is and never will be anything other than business going on. But I have one of those gut feelings that is screaming there is something going on. It's driving me mad; I need some help from someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2005): If I was you then I would ask to go on a trip with him because you are going to marry him and you are interested in his work. Try and form a relationship with this woman and get to know her because if there is something going on I am sure you would sense the arkwardness of you being together. I found out my boyfriend had cheated on a trip and Ii have demanded next time he goes back to that country I have to go to, just to put my mind at rest.It's a horrible feeling when you feel the man who you adore is batraying you but the truth is that this maybe absoloutly nothing at all and if it is nothing you need to ask yourself why you feel so insecure.Good luck.
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reader, madam treudeau +, writes (28 April 2005):
If you really want to know what is going on while he is away, my advice is to hire a private investigator to follow him for a while and report his findings to you personally. Secondly if, what he is saying is true, I advice you to swallow your pride and take it stride that he is intersted only in you. Be glad for that. Then too, think of how you address your closest friends. You more than likely have some interesting pet names for them as well, right? However, should you choose to trust your innermost feelings. It would be in your best interest to back out now and say lesson well learned. Then, promise yourself that you will try not to fall prey to any more similar situations.
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