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writes: I'm single, and I've just finished having an affair with a married man, but we both live close to each other. When I see him on his own, I say "Hi how are you?" He says "I'm fine, how are you?" I say, "Fine thanks", and walk away. But if he's with his friends he tends to look mortified as if I was going to say something. I wouldn't, but he doesn't know that. Do I carry on the way I am or do I say to him not to worry, just be yourself around me, no one will ever know what we did, it was just a bit of fun, I'm not the type to talk.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (19 April 2005):
 Next time you see him privately, do mention that you're concerned he's worrying more than he needs to.Tell him that your secret is safe and also make all the comments in your letter. It'll put his mind at ease.After that, the ball is in his court. You've given him no reason to think that you'll 'spill the beans' and if he'd rather worry than act rationally, then at least you'll know it was his choice.
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