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writes: Dear cupid,I have recently developed feelings for an older man. I am 21yrs old and he is 35. He is married with two young boys.We both get on so well and are very attracted to each other. We have kissed and held each other a lot but have done nothing more. He is also a friend of the family; that's how I know him. He is a kind and gentle man and really makes me laugh and we can talk for hours.I told him yesterday that we should stop getting too close, now we are trying to be good friends again but are totally miserable.Help me overcome my feelings for him as you know they are wrong, but it just feels right when were together
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2005): No, your first answer I believe was right. It is difficult to deal with ex wifes ( I have 3 to deal with) and a 13 year old step daughter. Besides that, he stopped being affectionate when we got married. Try to find someone else. This man took away the best years of my life. I was enjoying life so well until he walked in. Get all your wildness out before you settle down with anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2005): I'm 21 and at the weekend finished with my 36 year old boyfriend (with 2 children) after 10 months. It DOES NOT WORK! You will get hurt so much. At 21 you have everything, the world at your feet! There are so many obstacles in your way! Age, Children his wife.. it's not worth it! Walk away before it gets too serious.
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