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writes: I have had a crush on a bloke at work for over 2 years. just recently we have been flirting and he has made it quite obvious that he would sleep with me. I'm really tempted. The only thing is that he's married with a newborn baby. I know that his wife would never find out... should I give into temptation???
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2005): Do NOT be tempted. Men would not be such pigs if women did not allow it. Do not do it. It isn't worth it. The loss of self respect etc. Find someone else. There are sooo many other people out there. Why would you wnat to hurt another woman? We must, I stress 'must', stick together and support one antoher as sisters. He probably isn't thinking straight right now. With a newborn at home, sex has probably not been on her mind. Have a little compassion for the woman. You will be doing him and his life a favor. Turn it off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2005): Don't give in to temptation! A wife with a newborn baby? What about your conscience? What about his? How would you feel if you were the wife with the newborn baby and your husband slept with someone else? Avoid this man like the plague. He is out of order making it obvious he would sleep with you. You probably aren't the only one he has encouraged in this way.Find someone who is free and single. This guy is prepared to hurt his wife and eventually you too; it can only end in tears.Don't believe his wife won't find out no matter what precautionary steps you take. It isn't necessarily true that the wife is the last to know...
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