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Archived questions from: 7 April, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I get out of the mindset that somebody I can't be with is "the one" for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - How do I get out of the mindset that somebody I can't be with is "the one" for me? I was dumped by this girl a year ago now, due to problems in our relationship we couldn't overcome. i.e. We went to different uni's, and so she let distance become a ...

What's a husband supposed to do?!! My wife is dressing very sexy- can I get her to practice more discretion?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - My 38-year-old wife is beautiful woman, and is a devoted wife and mother. We've been very happily married for nine months, and our love life is great. This is our second marriages. My wife's first marriage was sexually unfulfilling and her ex was ...

How do I let him down gently without being too harsh?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I used to date this guy (james) who, at the time i thought was wonderful - he treated me with respect and cared for me. Then he cheated, so i dumped him. I'd liked this other guy (steve) for a while when i was with james, and so i made a move on him ...

My ex cheated but he really, really loves me! I'm so confused....can it work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - My ex cheated on me in september, and the girl he was with told me in december. he denied it.. i finaly got it out of him when i had solid evidence. i stayed with him, but broke up with him in january until march.... we were not really broken up, we ...

I suspect my ex goes out with my friend to make me jealous! Do I tell my friend how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend ended our relationship this morning we agreed to stay friends but i dont want another friend whilst we were going out i knew he had an eye on one of my friends and have just seen them together holding hands and kissing, i dont...

I enjoy more being with my friend who is depressed than being with my current partner, should I move to a happier relation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for more than 5 years now. Our relationship has problems from time to time. Now we don't talk with each other a lot. I feel that our relationship is getting weaker and I am not happy with him 3 year ago, I met anoth...

Should I continue a relationship with a man I have no future with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Im in a 2 1/2 year relationship with a guy i love to bits we have a three month child together. During the pregnancy the relationship was pretty dire but he has really changed and become a great dad. During the pregnancy he told me that he would ...

I miss her so much and want her back, Can you give me some guidance please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me because she said she didn't love me. She said she wanted to be in love with me more than anything but can't. So it ended, i was devastated. Strangely so was she. I decided to date again and went on a date. She had ...

We broke up, but we can't seem to let go of eachother, what should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me three weeks ago but we still talk on the phone almost everyday. Recently, we've admited to eachother that we still have strong feelings for eachother and that we miss eachother a lot. We have...

He wants me to stay and let him prove that he will never hurt me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost six years. He has been a really great partner and friend. However, he has cheated on me with around 7 women. All of whom he said he just had one time sex with. He has never told me or given me reason to ...

When will he get in touch with me again? I do not want to be the one who makes the first step.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - i broke up with my bf 3 days ago he said he does not have time for me as he has a lot of studying to do. I did not insist on patching up things as I did not want to look like a desperate woman. How long will it take before he gets in touch with me ...

How do you tell an ex you are still in love with them ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - How do you tell an ex you are still in love with them 8 months after the break-up, I'm still good friends with him, and I don't want to ruin that, plus I'm unsure if he's still with his current girlfriend..Please help, I'm not a very brave person :(...

How much time is time? How long should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

7 April 2008 (?) - Hi aunts (and uncles) I just need to get opinions on what to do next - I am with my guy over 2 years and we split up nearly 4 weeks ago over something silly and stupid (even tho it was mostly my fault/idea to break up in the first place). Bu...

Should I apologise, even though I feel indignant about HIS behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we share a small flat together. On Saturday night he had his mate stay over. Despite my offerings to stay at my mums my boyfriend insisted that I stayed in with the two of them. After working all week...

Why does it feel as if my ex, is rubbing it in my face that she's happy now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about 2 months ago, saying she felt like we'd grown apart and the relationship had run its course. We tried for two weeks before the final breakup to sort it out, having alot of fun but it only ever deep ...

I cheated on him 3 times in 2 yrs. I broke his heart, but I want him back, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I love him so much I cheated on my 2 year boyfriend 3 times. He loved me so much and i broke his heart and he eventually finished with me. I was scared of falling in love then loosing him as i had been there before with someone else and it hurt,...

Should I give him a month to think things through?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - "I have been with a guy for 7 years who is not ready to get married yet, we are both approaching 30 and to make things worse we have been living in different cities for 3years now. Our relationship has survived the distance until recently when we ...

My marriage limps along and I feel so lonely...please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi - would be pleased to hear from anyone else with similar experience or who could help.... When I got married in my early 20's my mother-in-law had already taken a dislike to me. It wasn't the classic 'not good enough' routine. It was fundament...

Should I go to Australia and be with the man I love, or make a go of my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I'm really desperate for advice - sorry this is a long story. A couple of years ago I separated from my husband (of 12 years marriage - total 18 year relationship). Our relationship had deteriorated to such an extent that we had not had sex for ...

Am I with the right person or should we make a clean break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - Am I with the right person? I've been dating my high school sweet heart since senior year for 2 years. I believe that this girl will be the best mother to any children she ever has and that is definitely one of her most attractive traits for m...

I want the baby and the boyfriend, but he has commitment issues!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having problems for sometime. I always feel like he's hiding me and maybe seeing other people. I always feel like he's lying to me about something. He definatley doesn't treat me right. He's told me he has fear of ...

Should I Confront The Man Who Betrayed Me and Stole My Sexuality For His Own Pleasure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I am an evangelist in my local church. My husband and I have been sep for 10 yrs. He contracted HIV while were sep, so I know we won't be getting back together. Ran into a past love from about 30 yrs ago (this happened 4 yrs ago). We first dated ...

I feel like I fell in love with somebody who never even liked me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi, Is there anything advice... I worked w/"Sam" and We became friends. Sam always said he wondered why our friendship grew as deep as it did (he was happy about this) and was very comfortable around me even if we were in the car in silence. We h...

Does a break count as part of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Although, he wanted 'space' that; he felt not to be ready in a relationship and that he wanted his freedom back. We haven't been seeing new people but ourselves to be honest as we were closte...

Is it natural or is my dream trying to tell me something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6103 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi, Weird thing happened to me. I was staying at my boyfriends house, we've been together for 6 months (had ours ups and downs, and loved being with him) but i ended up having a dream about my first love, saying that he missed me, it lead to k...

Is it unrealistic to even consider that we may/could make our marriage work NOW??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I married in April of last year for the second time. My first marriage occurred when i was very young, wayyyy too young. It lasted less than a year and i view it as a mistake made due to my age and immaturity. This time, however, i really felt like...