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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we share a small flat together. On Saturday night he had his mate stay over. Despite my offerings to stay at my mums my boyfriend insisted that I stayed in with the two of them.After working all week, and suffering from epilepsy, I need to go to sleep and went to bed at 1.30 am. At 3.30 am they were still being noisey, so i shouted at them, I get really cranky and had quite a tantrum at them for being so inconsiderate. I also poured water in my boyfriends bed, I was so mad at him, and wanted him to know what it was like not to have nay sleep. Well my boyfriend isntead of apologising said that I was completely out of order for embarrasing him and his friend, and that i was a crazy stupid little girl. He won't return my calls, nad has gone to stay at his mums.Should I apologie, even though I feel indignant? i don't want to walk away from our relationship, but don't know what to do.My boyfriend is so stubbornPlease help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Sorry, but i think he is partially right. He should of been more considerate of you with all the noise that he was making, but you went way out of line with the water, very childish. Write him a letter and explain that you are sorry for acting that way but you think he could of been a bit more considerate of you. If that doesnt do it then move on.
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