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writes:Hi, Weird thing happened to me. I was staying at my boyfriends house, we've been together for 6 months (had ours ups and downs, and loved being with him) but i ended up having a dream about my first love, saying that he missed me, it lead to kissing then to having sex but that did not happen, i even bit my lip in my dream to see if it was real (but it didn't hurt) however all this time while i was dreaming, subconsciously my mind told me that it was wrong and that i have a boyfriend which led me to wake up.Background with my '1st love'. I had a thing going on for 5 yrs, but both of us too stubborn to admit any feelings for each other, so it dragged out until he found a g/f and we left secondary school. We always used to hug, flirt and stuff and we were really close, he even asked me out, but i didn't, not if he was joking, so i said no, but back then i did find it hard to express my feelings so that's probably the main reason it didn't go anywhere. It took me 2yrs to move on, during this time he used to appear and disappear in my life which didn't help me getting over him and he still flirted with me even when he had a g/f, which was confusing. Anyhow, i accepted that he's always going to be part of my past and i'm happy with my boyfriend now. However my friend bought up the '1st love' recently about him coming to her birthday party, and this dream occured. I feel really guilty for even dreaming about that, is it natural or is my dream trying to tell me something? Should i tell my boyfriend (i was thinking about it that morning...but i decided not to just incase it gave the wrong ideas?)Please help, thanks!!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 You don't need to tell him your dreams. He'll develop false ideas around the meanings. It's okay to have these dreams. Most people have them. They really have no meaning asside from a sense of something that was not complete in the incident. Or something or someone will trigger a subconscious thought which will incorporate the thought into the dream.
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