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Archived questions from: January, 2022 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

What do these girls want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

29 January 2022 (M) - Do girls actually want you to touch or flirt with them in the stores? Are there any signs girls give to show they have interest? I seem to run into girls who seem to get very close to me, even bend down in front of me or bump into me at stores but...

Married 8 years and don't like having sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

27 January 2022 (F) - I have been married for 8 years now, but i don't like having sex.... I have pretended through out the marriage, used some lubricants and got on with it so to say. My husband has speculated that maybe i am gay because i never seem to be interest...

Is there anything my husband and I can do to help our sons?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

27 January 2022 (F) - I have two sons. John who is 39 years old and Rob who is 37 years old. I always thought that my sons were close. Rob is gay and has been officially together for 12 years (dating for five years, married for 7 years). But they have been friend...

I want to experience first love in high school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

26 January 2022 (F) - high school is the time when I want to experience my first love. I want to feel these new feelings. Having my first kiss is something I want to experience with my bf in high school. I know it shouldn’t be rushed. I feel im ready and excited ...

The more I know about his life, the more I want to walk away

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

25 January 2022 (F) - I’m in a relationship with a man with kids. I don’t have any and not thinking of wanting anytime soon. I haven’t met his kids and I don’t want to push him on meeting them. The more I get to know the situation with his life, the more I feel like ...

How to cope with losing a man I never had

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

25 January 2022 (F) - Hi there, Looking for some advice / help and opinions on how to cope with a man who has deeply hurt me. I can’t seem to get him out of my mind but crazy as it sounds we were not together. I am afraid this is a long story as I wanted to explai...

Should I sue for discrimination and loss of earnings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1036 days ago

23 January 2022 (M) - I have been at a sports company, coming up to nine years. enjoy the job I do and sending off football teams across the country. the assistant boss who has a sister, her sister has grassed on me, because I’ve supposedly called her some name and is t...

We're in our 80s and my wife is becoming aggressive

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1037 days ago

22 January 2022 (M) - i am in my 80's and have been married for over 60 my wife is getting very aggresive and whilst I try io get out of her way { probably for 4 hours} this doesnt do anything for the situation. These arguements with my wife shouting and banging around ...

My boss is making my work place miserable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

22 January 2022 (F) - Hello all, I have a situation where I don’t know what to do. My boss hates me why I don’t know. My boss has favorites I work for an apartment complex and there are several properties that this company owns. I am the manager and I have a leas...

My stingy friend blew off my birthday

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1037 days ago

21 January 2022 (F) - My friend is so stingy. And kind of selfish. She’s never offered to pay for anything and always finds excuses to get out of having to but never refuses and even takes advantage when others are generous with her. She also always comes up with ex...

Do other men like to see their wives flash their breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1037 days ago

20 January 2022 (M) - When weareout on vacation my wife likes to leave her blouse half open without a bra or halter on. It gets me aroused and I see many men sneak a peak any other men like their wife to flash?...

How do I fight what I feel when I set up boundaries towards others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

19 January 2022 (F) - How do I fight the unpleasantness I feel when I need to: set boundaries, stand up for myself, say no... I've ALWAYS had this problem. I grew up with a single mother, who was a strong, smart and a funny woman. She was kind and loving and proud...

I gave up my virginity long ago and have had guilt about it ever since

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1041 days ago

18 January 2022 (F) - I lost my virginity a long time ago to someone I had only met that day. I have always blamed myself and been quite embarrassed about it but in no way felt victimised or assaulted. But recently it has been bothering me because I consented to a point ...

Who is to blame for initiating the wife swap?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1038 days ago

16 January 2022 (M) - when a husband asks his wife if she would agree to a wife swap she then says no,then he asks again and she says she will think about it, and then decides she would do so knowing her yes would mean an almost certain swap would then happen. where ...

Deep down I don't fancy him. Should I give him a chance anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1046 days ago

13 January 2022 (F) - I’m torn as to whether or not I should go out with a guy who I don’t really fancy but I know holds a torch for me. He has always been really nice to me as a friend, though to be honest I have always kept him at arm’s length because of how much I ...

Is my boyfriend using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1046 days ago

12 January 2022 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. First 2 years were very good. We got along most times a few disagreements, mostly over money. The last 2 years have been not good. He gets agitated, and annoyed easily with me. He asks for ...

I thought she was my friend but she betrayed me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1046 days ago

12 January 2022 (M) - when I was at primary school, was left out of things and the parents would take their children away from me to play, because they were worried that I would hurt them or do something for much worse, growing up this really hurt me and people not unde...

What should I have done in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1047 days ago

11 January 2022 (M) - About a year ago a woman moved into the flat above mine. She is 34 and I am 48. The street we live on was not particularly quiet or particularly noisy - somewhere inbetween. There is a small metal scrap yard three doors down and there is noise from ...

Any advice on sex with the new man I've been seeing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1046 days ago

11 January 2022 (F) - I have been happy since my divorce of about 6 months ago. I was in a somewhat abusive relationship with my ex. So I am happy to move on. During this time a former colleague and friend helped me get through. He first suggested that I need not be in a ...

Should my sister in law contribute to my dental repair bill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1046 days ago

10 January 2022 (F) - In a tragic accident, my sister in law kicked a soccerball in my face and broke several teeth, total $4,000 in dental and medical to date, with additional damage unassessed (insane amount of pain, general oral health down, gum line receding because ...

Getting involved with my yoga student

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1047 days ago

9 January 2022 (F) - Im a yoga teacher training and try to be a leader in the community. Slowly, I noticed him taking coy glances at me. He started asking many more questions and making more direct eye contact. When he looked at me, his gaze would soften. He began to...

I've been anxious and feeling down lately

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1050 days ago

6 January 2022 (F) - I have been feeling very down, anxious, and slightly depressed with life recently and often feel like giving up. I am a mother to a very active two year old, I work part time at a hospital, and I am currently studying to become a midwife. The stress ...

His behaviour leaves me questioning his commitment to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1050 days ago

6 January 2022 (F) - Hi, Just wondering how I deal with a long time boyfriend with extreme anger issues. He throws things when he gets angry, like forks, pillows and his mobile phone. Tonight he threw a piece of pizza against my kitchen cupboards after we argue...

People asking for money on social media

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1054 days ago

5 January 2022 (F) - Hello ?? Social media has been a good way to make new friends. I have made a couple of long lasting friendships, however, it's also frustrating when you talk to people and they seem to feel it's okay to ask for money. Most times it's men ...

How do I negotiate at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1059 days ago

1 January 2022 (F) - I teach in a private school. I was promised a certain number of working hours that would equal to about 1000 USD per month (which is a bare minimum). Surprise surprise, my monthly gross salary is 800 USD, which is about 600 net. The first month wa...