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Archived questions from: 3 September, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What are my options for the future, in view of how he speaks to me and lies to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I have been trying for the past 2 years to cope with the knowledge that my husband had been deceiving me for 5 years by joining internet dating sites and cheating on me. My dilemma this time is the other night he was telling me that we dont tak...

How do I stop putting her on a pedestal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 4 years. we are currently doing a LDR where shes in Boston and im in NJ. She will be there for a year. We had gone to college together and spent almost every waking minute with each other. I ...

Why do I feel so unhappy and unfulfilled?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I have a good life so why an I so unhappy? I have a great boyfriend, a nice home, great family and friends but I keep dwelling on the things I don't have. Like a better paying job, my Own house, marriage.... So I guess its more money I want. B...

An old bf is back in my life but now he's ignoring me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I dated this guy in high school. I broke up with him cause we were leaving for college and I heard that he was heartbroken for years thereafter. And although I moved to another city after graduation, I always thought about him for all these ...

My partners friend hates me..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - My bf says we're still together but he left. He went to another state and says he just wants to work all the time so he can give my son and I everything we want but he is with a friend of his who hates my guts and has already hacked into his fb 3 ...

Should I have invited him back to my cabin??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - Having just returned from a cruise and had a lovely time-towards the end I became friendly with a nice man slightly older than myself (although he was friendly and chatted to everyone) however we had lunch together several times and coffee one ...

I want my life back, but need help on how to do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - My last relationship ended just over a year ago - we where together on and off, for 5 years (since I was 16) and especially towards the end of the relationship, he was physically and mentally abusive. The last year we were together, we lived in ...

I still haven't had a boyfriend and was wondering if its something I'm doing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - hello :)) i'm single since birth and i do not know why,i know that i'm not that head turner lady but still i'm not the super ugly one..before,there are some guys who i know that liked me,they show gestures that they like me (like i always catch ...

I'm in an awkward position and I don't know what to do..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - ok so theres this guy we will call him iggy pop. then theres a guy named....button. so iggy pop asks me out and i said yes we kissed and stuff but then we both had other stuff to do(such as school,after school events, and so on) and we havent hu...

My 'friend' used me, what do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - ok guys this is long but any opinions would be gratefully recieved. ive known a guy 3 years and ive always had strong feelings for him but we've always stayed friends-he always come up with some reason like he thinks of me like a sister or somethin...

How can I feel less empty and get a girl to notice me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - I've had an emotional empty feeling for a few years. I can't identify the cause despite but it might have developed from the sadness that was caused to me as a child about things that I couldn't control and being very unfortunate. I do have good ...

Should I contact him or let things be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - There was a guy I knew for four years. I sort of liked him because he was always there for me when I needed it. He never judged me or anyone by their exterior and I feel like there was something there for me. I was super insecure so I let him go and ...

Should I get back in contact or let things be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

I'm not sure what to do or say?!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - Who gets a cold sore days before her second date? I DO! what do i do? i bet he's gona expect a kiss and i am NOT telling him i have labial herpes! what if what if what ifffff........i know he cant kiss me in public, he prob expects me to ask himm to ...

I love two guys and not sure what to do about it???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

3 September 2011 (?) - Hey Cupids, I am a little confused as I seem to be inlove with two guys at the same time. How is this even possible??! Have you ever been in this situation? And how do you know which one to pick since you care about both of them and have a great ti...

I know it's wrong what he's doing but what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - My fiance cheated on me to have a 3 some with men, and he had a bunch of text messages, emails.. he made up profiles for sex ( for both men and women) hes a liar! but he confuses me, makes me think im wrong when i feel so badly in my heart that i am ...

Why has he stopped all of a sudden??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I'm confused! I am in my early 20s and ive been with my boyfriend(fiance) for almost 2 years. for the last 8 months, he doesnt want to go down on me?for the first few months we were together, he would go down on me. and now he always expects me to ...

Should my brother have told me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

3 September 2011 (?) - I have been torned up about my ex's cheating thats why he is now my ex...but all through my 22 yrs of marriage I always thought we had a fairytale marriage until 4 years ago ...I was devastated to say the least.....so now we're separated I am ...

Cheating for 7years and a child to another woman!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - my husband has been having an affair for 7 years with his female college friend and a male college friend of his told me that she admited to her close friend that her 6 year old gaughter is my husbands. he has changed alot and swears at me every day ...

My first crush in a long time but he's taken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - i have a problem....so i met this guy in mt math class but then i changed classes then a few days later i found out he was in my new science class....i really really like him...and i want to tell him...we began talking and hes cool, nice, ...