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writes:My bf says we're still together but he left. He went to another state and says he just wants to work all the time so he can give my son and I everything we want but he is with a friend of his who hates my guts and has already hacked into his fb 3 times and removed me and my son from my bfs friends list..my bfs friend wont let my bf use his phone to call me so fb and skype are our only way of communication. I keep crying but my bf keeps telling me that I shouldn't be sad cause its not like we broke up or anything...but I can't get over this deep sadness and occasionally have really bad thoughts come into my head. I need a way to control myself because I now feel like I have no control over my life....help please
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 September 2011):
 So I have this straight, your boyfriend moved to another state (in with his friend?) for a job and basically doesn't have any contact with you because his friend says so?? Is his friend male or female?
Since when does your boyfriend let his friend dictate his life? This makes absolute no sense to me. Unless of course your boyfriend is a spineless person who lets people walk all over him.
Is there anymore to the story? It sounds like some parts could be missing.
I believe it's time for you to rethink this relationship..because this sudden LDR with no contact isn't going to last. I can guarantee it.
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